DD0001 Posted April 2 43 minutes ago, DarkArts1066 said: I agree with this actually. There is a way around it though. I have a silk scarf which I use as a blindfold, and another much longer one, which I use as a ‘soft tie’ -one that restricts movement, but is easily removed. You can buy Bra Fasteners from a Habadashery or dressmakers shop or online site - and 1 inch and 2inch elastic strapping. Sew two short lengths of the elastic strapping to the ends of the silk, then add the Bra Fasteners. Easy to release in a hurry if you need to, and equally, you can wrap the silk over itself a few times to create a ‘lock’ - but still release it instantly, because of the elastic and the hooks. “Necessity is the Mother of invention”. Would that not just rip the silk when pulled on?
Na**** Posted April 14 I had a play date last week in which we used zip ties as handcuffs, a first for me. I fastened one to the bedpost and then looped two through that one to create handcuffs. It was part of a fully pre-planned pre-negociated CNC scene in which I was to enter the house quietly and take her by surprise, she was to fight back and I was to overpower and secure her to the bedframe and have her completely at my mercy. About 10-15m after I secured her I noticed that her hands had began to turn blue/purple. She was fully submerged into subspace by this point and didn't even notice, full body tremors and still trying to focus on the wand between her legs. I called a pause on the scene to cut her hands free, she insisted she was fine. I was not comfortable with the colour her hands were turning even if she didn't think it was a big deal. Zip ties continue to tighten the more you pull. I told her that while her pleasure was important to me her safety was paramount. The sudden shift from "a stranger taking advantage of me in my home" to very concerned Daddy Dom kind of spelled an end to the CNC scene but it was, in my opinion, well worth it. We collapsed into a shaky cuddle puddle together after that while I massaged her wrists until the colour in her hands returned to normal. She fell asleep in my arms as she usually does after an overstim orgasm.
DarkArts1066 Posted April 14 12 minutes ago, NattysNook said: I had a play date last week in which we used zip ties as handcuffs, a first for me. I fastened one to the bedpost and then looped two through that one to create handcuffs. It was part of a fully pre-planned pre-negociated CNC scene in which I was to enter the house quietly and take her by surprise, she was to fight back and I was to overpower and secure her to the bedframe and have her completely at my mercy. About 10-15m after I secured her I noticed that her hands had began to turn blue/purple. She was fully submerged into subspace by this point and didn't even notice, full body tremors and still trying to focus on the wand between her legs. I called a pause on the scene to cut her hands free, she insisted she was fine. I was not comfortable with the colour her hands were turning even if she didn't think it was a big deal. Zip ties continue to tighten the more you pull. I told her that while her pleasure was important to me her safety was paramount. The sudden shift from "a stranger taking advantage of me in my home" to very concerned Daddy Dom kind of spelled an end to the CNC scene but it was, in my opinion, well worth it. We collapsed into a shaky cuddle puddle together after that while I massaged her wrists until the colour in her hands returned to normal. She fell asleep in my arms as she usually does after an overstim orgasm. Like I’ve said elsewhere. Don’t use zip ties. In this case, all you lost was the rest of your play scene. Worst case, permanent nerve damage, *** clots, amputation requirement due to loss of *** flow and tissue death. It really isn’t worth it. The risk is too high. Well done though for doing the right thing… And -actually noticing that there was a problem. I have heard tales where that hasn’t been the case.
Na**** Posted April 14 8 minutes ago, DarkArts1066 said: Like I’ve said elsewhere. Don’t use zip ties. In this case, all you lost was the rest of your play scene. Worst case, permanent nerve damage, *** clots, amputation requirement due to loss of *** flow and tissue death. It really isn’t worth it. The risk is too high. Well done though for doing the right thing… And -actually noticing that there was a problem. I have heard tales where that hasn’t been the case. That's exactly what I told her, you can pout all you like but tuff, I won't be the reason you lose your hands.
DarkArts1066 Posted April 14 1 hour ago, NattysNook said: That's exactly what I told her, you can pout all you like but tuff, I won't be the reason you lose your hands. Good on you for sticking to your guns. That’s what makes the difference between someone trying to be a Dom…… and a good one. It’s all about awareness, and the small details my friend.
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