How Do You Separate Your Heart from a Dynamic?

[Ri****]

Well the way we do it is we do have rules in place that never gets crossed or questioned. 1. No kissing is a big one for us because kissing is passion. 2. Above all respect. 3. Always play together or it's cheating. And if you always abide by your rules you will have a sense of security. And with us we never play with friends or everyday acquaintances. And remember love and sex isn't the same thing. Sex and exercise are and I don't like to jog lol

[so****]

I never thought of separating those. I don't see the point.

[la****]

I agree with other people here. It's nice to see I'm not alone. I can't and don't want to seperate emotions from play. I can do some light feeling out of our dynamic and how it may work for us specifically, in person, but I don't want a dynamic wherein my partner is solely my dom, or solely a sadist with whom I engage in *** play.

[Deleted Member]

I don't separate my heart from play. When it comes down to aftercare, it's important to not only to my subs but to myself that I care. That's part of who I am & how I operate as a Domme leaning switch. I don't expect ppl to separate their hearts either. When I play, I play with potential partners.

[wa****]

With the type of intimacy we have i find it impossible to seperate my heart