My bf has second thoughts..

[ge****]

Get him into watching you masturbating but not allowing him to touch. Make it about him enjoying watching you, seeing you enjoy it. It's a form or voyeurism that also has that connection. Without the feelings involved the 3rd is essentially an organic sex toy, your not trying to fuck another guy you're trying to help him achieve his fantasy.

[Deleted Member]

Forcing him to do it - doesn’t seem like a good idea. If the roles were reversed, what would you want said, done etc?

[Br****]

How about you listen to him and accept that it's fantasy and not something he actually wants to do. If that's not enough for you then maybe you have to talk about bigger issues instead of whatever it is you think you would accomplish by manipulating him into doing something he doesn't want to.

[Do****]

My advice to him would be to drop you immediately.
He's decided that it's not something he wants to pursue, and you're on here asking a bunch of strangers how to convince him to do it because YOU want to do it. You clearly don't give a f*ck about him.

[Ch****]

Keep cucking

[DaFetts]

Make him jerk off to cuckold hypno.

[Si****]

Hes playing the cuck roll correctly. Continue doing what you're doing

[Bi****]

If you want any chance of him being comfortable with it in the future, start with respecting his feelings by logging out of this app for a while as he asked. If you cannot prioritize his needs and the safety of your relationship by doing that, you certainly won't be able to after adding other men into the mix and you might as well do the right thing and end it now.

[ba****]

U 2 find a couple

[Ma****]

If you’re making this post without him, knowing that says everything already

[Se****]

It needs to be his choice. Just watch cuckold porn and tease him about cuckold topics.

[pa****]

Sounds like he likes the fantasy, but the reality of it happening is the issue.
Many guys have this type of thing. At the end of the day for it to work you both have to be on board and 100% with it.

[Fo****]

Im going to mirror several others. You shouldn't be "convincing" him of anything. That's terrible of you. If he says no, it's no. Or you should leave and pursue your wants. But never EVER try to "Convince" your partner to do anything. It never goes well.

[De****]

Consent is key! Don’t ever convince anyone to do something they don’t want to do. That’s not consent.

[ge****]

Simply stated, discuss further. Neither of you can “convince” the other. Each of you either negotiate a resolution of the relationship is finished.

[Deleted Member]

Being a turn on for our brain as a fantasy doesn’t always become a turn on when put into reality. You just need to respect that and reassure him that he’s more than enough for you and accept that. You can always try again one day

[BIGDICK13]

You fo*ce it to happen and get what you want

[Th****]

Convincing isn't consent, time to have a chat!

[Sc****]

Respect his wishes and boundries, or maybe don't be his partner. You can find someone who wants to, if he dosen't. Be the partner you would want.

[So****]

...you can't 'convince' him. It's a personal choice and he's either 'in or out'. If he's consistently not feeling the idea that much and isn't fully on board with it, you either compromise on another kink you are both down to try and are really into, or if cuckolding means that much to you, then you'd have to consider trying it out with someone else in the future (unless you and your partner is and/or becomes a long term thing)

[CptDetroit]

I don’t think it’s wise, fair, safe or appropriate to ever “convince” (e.g., coerce) your partner.

It may such when someone’s boundaries change, but you have to either accept the new boundaries or leave if you think it’s something you can’t handle.

Trying to *** something on someone is not healthy for them, your relationship and not representative of our lifestyle.

Hope you figure out what you need, pal, and communicate it to him as he did to you, so you two can both decide on whether or not staying together is best for you both.

[mo****]

Perhaps he wants you to do it to put him in his place.

[Lu****]

I’m going to be contentious … go it alone ! Omg 😳 😬

[bo****]

You don't convince him at all.

You respect his wishes and limits, plain and simple as that.

[ey****]

4 hours ago, exporing_couple said:

My bf was super into us trying cuckold while I was on the fence. Now that I start to talk to other men and wanting to meet he has second thoughts and wants us to stop being on this app.

Now how do I convince him to get into cuckolding again? Anyone thinks he can convince him?

so this is a kinda issue - in the sense that some people they have fantasies, and when the fantasies become 'real' they find out they were only ever into the idea