My bf has second thoughts..

[na****]

Umm duh!!! Because he probably realized he cared about you more thane he thought. I only day this from experience. I learned a lot after me and my gf went to jail and rehab. 2yrs ago I hook w my gf he had a good time for a minute but then like the3rd time we both got our mmf and ffm. We both were OBVIOUSLY bothered. I say this just to simply say It Ain’t gonna work out. I mean I don’t give a f**k what ur kink is if u love someone it’s going fucking bother u enuf that he would probably do like I did let that shit destroy him. All the resentment and always wondering if you’re talking to guys. It’s spiritually lethal. I know I’m 47 but I’ve an interesting and blessed xxx life style

[Na****]

He is number 1 even if he is a cuckold. Go slowly just meet someone no strings see how that goes. It sounds like nerves.

[Pl****]

If its truly "convincing" him..I dont think you do. IMO kink and *** are mutually exclusive. Talk, discuss the feelings, express desires, find out if there is something you can do..but dont convince.

I dont share that kink, but if another guy was joining me and my girl, I'd want a lot of say in who it is.

[Dr****]

If he has second thoughts don’t do it. If you gonna do it, he will feel betrayed. Obviously he is Not ready for it. Respect it. Give him love and Care. If he will be ready for it he will come to that topic again. Maybe he will get doubts again. Than give him time again. That is Something so hard emotionally. That it needs a lot of time, Communication but absolutely no *** from your side otherwise it will Ruin the Relationship.

[le****]

I've been in that place where i considered if i liked it. My self esteem was non existent at the time. He need to be your priority. Not 20minues with some randomer. No man enjoys cuckholding i think those who do are probably going through somthing. Talk with him not us

[Pa****]

If you are completely forward with your partner and you are not doing anything outside the 2 of you as discussed prior to doing anything and nothing is done behind the others back. Besides if you can't trust the person your with then why are you with them anyways. When discussing a lifestyle adventure you have to discuss the rules that you both agree on. If someone is having doubts or issues with the dynamic that's the time yo sit down and go over everything again maybe there are some new rules that need to be considered so the other is confident again

[ca****]

If he's having second guesses and negative feelings in regards to... it might not be his thing. It's not easy for some men. I personally (if I care for my other half) would not be able to go through with it. If it's something you absolutely need or desire, bring it up with him again. I've seen and heard of several pf the "cuckold" moments turning violent and/or having a long lasting effect. It's not for everyone

[ge****]

Simple answer is you don't "convince" him of anything - you discuss with him, try to understand his ***s and concerns and if it's not for him *you* accept that. It really is that simple.
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If he'd come to you wanting to do something you didn't you'd expect the same from him.
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Cuckolding or even simply involving others in your sex life is a big step for anyone to take, and needs to be done from a position of a strong relationship where *both* partners are in agreement to take that step - without that you are threatening your relationship and likely to open up cracks and resentment.

[Deleted Member]

No means no 🤦🤦🤦

[Th****]

I don’t even know where to start. „Convincing“ him aka manipulating him is a very good idea if you are flirting with the possibility of being single soon .

Why the urgency?
Why not let things sit and develop?
Talk about it when it comes back up, ease into it so you both can enjoy it?

Not considering the growth arch of your partner is not really collaborative, considerate .

Unless of course you have some type of agreement that he has to endure whatever but then this whole discussion is obsolete.

[An****]

If he's not 100% into it, then the very fact that you're interested in fucking other men could be deeply devastating to him, perhaps beyond what he will show. I think you should completely stop this in its tracks before it's too late and narrow your vision to only him.

[Sl****]

With every aspect of kink listening to your partner in play is important, sometimes the idea of exploring a kink is more alluring than the reality of it.

If he was the one that first wanted to explore it like your post states then it sounds like the reality of it doesn't sit well with him, have an open and honest conversation with him and listen to his feelings and find out the root cause or boundaries that he's okay with, is it because he feels threatened by these other guys, are they flirting too much, what kind of cuckolding was he interested in at the start and what level of attachment to the 3rd party was he expecting.

I hope this helps

TLDR; reality of kink is sometimes different to the thought of it, listen to your partner, find the reason he wanted and his boundaries.

[wo****]

Smh bro is a lucky dude it’s almost impossible finding a woman into cuckolding 😐

[sp****]

Talk to him about he’s feelings and thoughts and try and figure things out but you can’t make him do it if he doesn’t want to or see if u can swing by yourself cos there’s relationships like that

[Deleted Member]

You should respect his decision.

[Deleted Member]

If his treating you right don't mess up your happy relationship for short term Pleasure.

[to****]

That’s a shame

[hn****]

Should respect your man if your into cuckold and he has different thought and your still wanting to do it , then u should just walk away from him , u dont respect your man enough

[Bearbaloo]

Go slow go to a local dungeon let it become the adventure he wants it to be.

[Deleted Member]

You cannot *** someone into the lifestyle. If you do it will doom your relationship. If he is not into it then you respect his decision and move on or work together to find something you both can be OK with. Lifestyle cannot fix a broken relationship.

[ho****]

A fantasy isn't always supposed to become reality. If he not comfortable with it, he's not ready. Nor does he want to see you get ****ed by another man. Obviously you're excited about the thought. But are you going to able to stay faithful? Because if that's the cast you should break up now before you doom the relationship....

[Everhard332]

Fantasy is very different from reality. The reality of things hit him and he's realised it. The best thing you do is take it slow, talk to him and make him understand it will not change the dynamic between the two of you. You don't love him any less. Maybe even take a break for a while. Play to his fantasies during sex by talking to him about how hot it would be to fuck someone else. Play chastity games but slowly and carefully. He needs to be comfortable with it. That is if you really want to keep him. If you don't care about keeping him you can always give him an ultimatum, become a cuck or leave.
Good luck

[Ni****]

Start soft with some role play. Meet him at a bar pretend you don't know each other get each other fake names, go back to a motel

[Do****]

Go slow. Let him take his time. And if you still want to do it then don’t tell your bf and be a like regular girl who cheats behind his back. Don’t tell him the truth..!! Never ever..!!! Because it might take some weight out of your shoulders but he has to live with the feelings that he gave everything and you cheated or cucked him. So either take it slow or hide the affair.

[bu****]

Kinda strange he changed obviously he's more jealous then he thought. But maybe you can suggest him if you flip the situation for him maybe he'll get back into it again. In relationships you have to give to be able to get