La**** Posted April 19 I've learned on here and most places, people don't read bios, I've clearly stated in my bio that I'm not into men, yet they still dm nasty stuff about some weird crap, like me passing gas and what not. Maybe, just maybe, people could take a moment, read the bio of the person they're about to send their message to. Yeah, I know, you only miss the shots you don't take, but you also can't score touchdowns in basketball.
La**** Posted April 19 Author 5 minutes ago, LaceyGal said: I've learned on here and most places, people don't read bios, I've clearly stated in my bio that I'm not into men, yet they still dm nasty stuff about some weird crap, like me passing gas and what not. Maybe, just maybe, people could take a moment, read the bio of the person they're about to send their message to. Yeah, I know, you only miss the shots you don't take, but you also can't score touchdowns in basketball. I am stealing your final sentence. That is fabulous.
Seuss-MD Posted April 19 Firstly, the wording here is beautifully constructed and I thoroughly enjoyed reading it, especially the last part. I never understood this bizarre tendency either, but I like your take on it. Thank you.
Ji**** Posted April 19 3 hours ago, MrZincBull said: the fuck is wide boys? the fuck Um- your quote may indicate you are a wide boy. Just sayin.
Bo**** Posted April 19 3 hours ago, MrZincBull said: the fuck is wide boys? the fuck I think the OP defined it above in previous comments if you care to look.
Re**** Posted April 19 I too am confused by the “wide boys” reference.. also, contrary to popular belief, I’m not a fan of porn.. for many reasons.. so I can’t really relate to the “understanding” of the supposed anticipating of this scenario.. but I do relate to the bizarre messages sent by some people..
Co**** Posted April 19 It’s the lack of respect and the AUDACITY for me. Put some thought into it. If your first message is what up sexy or straight dive in the deep end with dirty talk without checking if this pool has water (hint-it does not) dismissed. Boring AF.
Ro**** Posted April 20 You don’t really believe what you wrote do you? Do you honnestly think that the guy and girl in the porn your watching spent time together slowly building trust, connecting and communicating? It’s porn, their actors. They meet and bang for ***. I do on the other hand understand why that is what a women would want in real life.
La**** Posted April 20 Author 5 minutes ago, RossFreeman said: You don’t really believe what you wrote do you? Do you honnestly think that the guy and girl in the porn your watching spent time together slowly building trust, connecting and communicating? It’s porn, their actors. They meet and bang for ***. I do on the other hand understand why that is what a women would want in real life. My dude. The analogy was to connect the *scening* bc no one who watches porn can see a scene in a private bedroom or even likely sees it in a dungeon, do they? My point, which apparently went right over your head, was in order to get a partner to the point where she trusts you enough to do (and enjoy doing) all those filthy things you (the wife boy referred to in the poem, not you you, as evidently I have to spell things out) want to do, you have to begin at the beginning . With respect and building connection and trust. You cannot waltz in with what you see in the scening (and I referenced porn as that is their only visual frame of reference). Also, it's *they're
da**** Posted April 20 Friday at 03:47 PM, 333stray333 said: I just think its your perspective and opinion. Theres many energies, languages, and ways to play. Maybe its the “wrong” way to aaproach YOU- but they dont know you yet, do they? And given the difference in philosophy- they probably dont want to know you- youre just a body- no- a photo, until you show your overly self important and sensitive personality. Its just not that big of a deal m8. Dance or dont. What a dangerous and scary viewpoint. People are not objects they are human beings. No one would go up to a stranger and say inappropriate sexual things from the get go so why is it acceptable on here? I’m guessing you got hurt as you see yourself in her words. Good for people to know to avoid you so thank you for outting yourself so clearly.
La**** Posted April 20 So here's this, anyone arguing the point bring made, prove this is normal acceptable behavior, walk up to a perfect stranger and day this stuff to them, irl, no keyboard, face to face. Get it on video and post it. The truth is simple yet egos seem to be in the way, as a human, when I'm approached in this way by either a male or female, it's not a turn on for me, but I also have standards and of you don't treat me with respect in the very beginning when normally that's when people do, fake or not, then you will likely never treat me with respect. Since a major building block of a healthy BDSM relationship is respect, it's then a fail from the get go, unless you're just fake and use BDSM as a means to *** people to serve some childhood trauma issues.
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