Ro**** Posted May 6 I've dated a whole 2 again in my lifetime. Only because I've never been shown interest by more than those two. Just like some say no one wants an older BBW. However once I opened up options to where those are sought out ( groups) I found there's plenty interest.
Fa**** Posted May 7 I haven’t had the opportunity to test this theory. I mean, I wouldn’t care either way. It’s about the chemistry and personalities/limits/preferences meshing well together.
Re**** Posted May 7 On 5/6/2025 at 12:36 PM, RogueLynx said: I've dated a whole 2 again in my lifetime. Only because I've never been shown interest by more than those two. Just like some say no one wants an older BBW. However once I opened up options to where those are sought out ( groups) I found there's plenty interest. That's funny. "Older BBW" was my type in my mid to late 20s. Now that I'm older, it's more like anyone around my age, but I'm open to younger now. I'm also a fattie, now.
Re**** Posted May 7 (edited) On 4/27/2025 at 7:23 PM, LiddoJoon said: As a Black woman in the USA, I completely understand you. I'll tell you as others have told me, go where you are loved, desired, and appreciated. I didn't see you mention where you are or the type of people you've been encountering, but maybe casting a wider net may help. Also, sometimes, we tend to internalize the stereotypes that exist of us, so you may also want to keep that in mind. That's such good advice. If he faces a rejection, and doesn't know why, he shouldn't attribute it to a stereotypical characterisic, or some overall stereotype about the way the other person thinks. Unless they're willing to explain it, then you just don't know. I've only found out that race was a reason for my rejection twice. Once was on a dating site, from a woman who didn't want Black men. It turns out she didn't want to date Asian men either - but I only found that out after we had phone sex! That was so weird. Another time, it was my first cuddle buddy, who was also into BDSM. We clicked as hang out buddies. We fooled around a little bit, just kissing and some other semi-kinky stuff, and she tried to be attracted to me, but she only wanted white and Latino men, and probably her ethnic group. I'd also assume pale Latinos tbh. This was just a trip to me, that she was so hung up on race, but I figure that's just how some people are. (Later, when I got into a relationship, and mentioned it in chat, she said, "I bet I give better head." I was like, "oh, so you are into me." She denied it. I suspect that she was probably feeling heavy social pressure against getting romantic with someone who doesn't look white.) I'm sure I've been rejected for race more times, but it just hasn't been told to me, because, I don't think people want to face the fact they're sexually prejudiced, or affected by negative racial stereotypes. More likely, though, I've been rejected for reasons totally unrelated to race. Edited May 7 by RelaxedTension
no**** Posted May 26 I think it's all in preference. In the communities I've been in there is diversity but I've not seen many different backgrounds. Any community I've been in has been welcoming to all. If there are stereotypes it's for anyone with the same perspective. Some come with the confidence of being in it, there's a stigma for anyone and if you add that to an environment or interest in this. It's all taboo and culturally it has more depending on what your individual. I know some or skeptical because the fetish could be that specific culture and it can get some stigma. But I. The end of its what you choose to include yourself in then there nothing wrong with exploring your interests.
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