Popular Post La**** Posted April 27 Popular Post I don't kiss on the mouth. Pretty Woman, circa 1990. That line never struck me as odd. I suppose, in the scheme of things, kissing didn't seem so important. Not when there were other things: sucking his dick, wrapping a hand around my hair, yanking back my head and biting my throat. Fucking me, from behind, my face pressed down into the bed covers. What was kissing compared to being spanked until I cried, ***d to orgasm until I screamed? But then, recently, someone told me that kissing was a hard limit. An absolute no-no in their ENM arrangement, and I thought, oh. No. I don't like that. I think that hard limit for you might be a hard limit for me. Suddenly, kissing became everything. A way to surrender, letting your mouth conquer mine. Our breath intertwine. A way for me to plead for mercy, or to show you what I want, when I'm too shy to say the words. A prelude to fucking. No, a foreshadowing of it. Sensual. Intimate. To press into you, against you, and offer myself up to you. To bite at your lip, stealing control for a moment, and have you take it back with aggression. With ***. Bruise my lips. Trap me between the crush of your mouth and your hard grip in my hair. Kissing was something small, unimportant. But take it away, tell me I can't, and suddenly, I don't kiss on the lips became unfathomable.
Master_Gene Posted April 27 Someone lost what is important in letting the other one know that you really care about them, just because one can do everything to another does not mean they can't show how one feel about the other one in front of them. After all they have given their control over to you to do as you wish, that don't mean you can't show that you do care about them. It still a kink that everyone wants.
Lu**** Posted April 27 Kissing - so simple, so intimate and so important. It’s MUST! No kiss. No meet.
Ch**** Posted April 27 Kissing is a hard limit for me, its very emotional and would only be for a 'in love' partner x
Ji**** Posted April 27 I understand the limit - though I don’t share it. Sharing body fluids and physical contact is one think. Sharing a breath - and the entry of the inner body? I can see why someone may reserve that
DivineMystOG Posted April 27 I'm the opposite, I wont have sex with anyone I wouldn't kiss. For me intimacy and sex are intertwined.
Gr**** Posted April 27 I once attended a kissing class that offered techniques and games about kissing that showed me how erotic simple lip play can be. yow! I mostly do not enjoy “French” or tongue-kissing: at best I find it weird and boring, at worst I find it gross. I have better uses for someone’s tongue. Oddly, if my partner has brought me to orgasm with their mouth then I will happily slide my tongue into theirs to taste myself on them. Otherwise, I’ll kiss on the lips, cheeks, forehead and neck. But a tongue sliding into my mouth just to be in there? Meh.
wy**** Posted April 27 During my BSc days I met this cheating gf she could take on the whole school but her limit was no kissing(of course the bf didn't know, and sometimes he would laugh with guys that have been with her unknowingly)I always found if hypocritical
my**** Posted April 27 Because kissing on the mouth is intimate jester so sorry I meant for lovers and that's why Julia never kissed on the lips in pretty woman
ga**** Posted April 27 That’s what I thought when I saw pretty woman, yet the nuance of not being permitted to perform the basis of foreplay, is like taking away the foundations from a house, you can’t stand it
th**** Posted April 27 I remember this girl who wanted to hook up with me for all the wrong reasons but wouldn't take no for an answer. Ultimately I told her that kissing was a hard limit in my relationship with my partner (mostly cause this girl had breath that smelled like a Walrus' Anus) and she got really ***ved about that and moved on to bothering someone else.
Yi**** Posted April 28 I havent kissed the last two ladies that like to come here. We've been too busy sucking ass and fisting. I think it would be really kinky to kiss them. Only one time did we have penetration. I put my hand in her pussy, then my dick in my hand and masturbated both of us inside her. But we have never kissed on the lips.
Eg**** Posted April 28 I’ve never even thought of kissing as something that could be a hard limit for someone. I don’t think I could be with a partner like that, kissing is just too much fun for me, and it’s versatile. It can be friendly, it can be playful, it can be sensual, it can be downright sex. Who could resist a tender smooch from a sub on her knees? :3
x-**** Posted May 3 Kissing evokes sensuality, lust, Primal/feral urges, and love. To me, it is extremely important.
Re**** Posted May 4 Yes I love kissing, especially cumkissing it’s the best way to bring the kinks out of me!
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