Secretly admiring

[Sa****]

9 minutes ago, freakho said:

Women are super jealous. I let her roam no problem; as soon as I did it she lost her shit🙄 lol most of em just wanna have their cake and eat it🤷‍♂️. Let him do it first and see how u feel. If u can't handle it maybe this lifestyle isn't for u📠

All he has to do is ask, and come home to me... Pretty simple

[fr****]

Does he know he has that option or have you cucked him?

1 minute ago, SassyCas said:

All he has to do is ask, and come home to me... Pretty simple

 

[fr****]

Have you cucked him?

[Sa****]

Never

[fr****]

Maybe not in the literal sense. Emasculated men usually let her get away w *** and beg for her attention 🙄
Easier to replace em imo
Sometimes people grow apart or develop some kinda fucked up codependency

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1 hour ago, SassyCas said:

That's the best reply yet... I don't see why I have to disclose to everyone on here if I've talked with my man about a fantasy or not... But we're both agreed we can look and just not touch....

Seems like someone else on here thinks that their only thoughts are what must be followed 🤣😂

I’ve said multiple times, that that is not the case, I added a suggestion, as for “I have every right to post what I wish without backlash- do you realise this is reality, and not everyone will agree with you?

As you said to me “their only thoughts are must be followed” - so yeah, in posting online you open up yourself to others opinions contradictory of your own.

But, I guess we both assume a lot, which is quite funny how you telling me not to assume when “ someone else on here thinks that their only thoughts must be followed” - you’ve done the day thing you told me not to do

As for my assumptions, I’m basing it on this post - you said if he would agree, and you haven’t even spoken to him about this - that’s a fact - you can’t suddenly tell me that’s incorrect, as I know that’s not the case, your actions tell a different story

But you’re right, I have no idea who you are, no idea your relationship dynamics or anything to do with that. - however you making this post is quite telling, people do things for reasons, and eventually you’ll have to make a decision

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1 hour ago, SassyCas said:

There's plenty of communication between my man and I... Your assumptions are based on what You think is wrong... If you can't be respectful, you just shouldn't comment... I have every right to post what I wish without backlash from someone who doesn't know me.

I’m being respectful, I’ve not called you names, I’ve not called your relationship wrong or bad - all I said is you should talk to him about this situation

If you haven’t already, - welcome to the duality of posting content online, not everyone will agree, or did you just post to get a “that a girl” or “I feel that way too about someone”

Your not agreeing with me, that’s fine, you have every right- but I’ve not dismissed any of your replies as you’ve done my own - saying I shouldn’t of commented

I’ve just given advice take it or leave it- and of course your going to leave it- but I believe if not addressed this situation will eventually bubble,

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1 hour ago, SassyCas said:

There's plenty of communication between my man and I... Your assumptions are based on what You think is wrong... If you can't be respectful, you just shouldn't comment... I have every right to post what I wish without backlash from someone who doesn't know me.

Also I’m thinking about the subject, this is all to do with the topic you created in the first place. there is communication otherwise you wouldn’t be married, however I was stated there was no communication given this subject- which there isn’t, I have a feeling the husband is none the wiser to this particular individual

[Sa****]

9 hours ago, oliver6996 said:

Also I’m thinking about the subject, this is all to do with the topic you created in the first place. there is communication otherwise you wouldn’t be married, however I was stated there was no communication given this subject- which there isn’t, I have a feeling the husband is none the wiser to this particular individual

You're a joke... You continue to assume I don't communicate with my partner... He knows, we openly talk about people who we find attractive. And yet you continue to make remarks about a situation you know nothing about. It's a FANTASY...

And my man keeps me perfectly happy. I just find the person of my fantasy attractive, my man knows this. So why don't you move on and go bother someone else.

And note I knew this guy from when I used to be married. So I'm sure you have your assumptions about that as well.

Did someone do you wrong? If so, sorry, but that doesn't give you the right to belittle me.

[Sa****]

9 hours ago, oliver6996 said:

I’ve said multiple times, that that is not the case, I added a suggestion, as for “I have every right to post what I wish without backlash- do you realise this is reality, and not everyone will agree with you?

As you said to me “their only thoughts are must be followed” - so yeah, in posting online you open up yourself to others opinions contradictory of your own.

But, I guess we both assume a lot, which is quite funny how you telling me not to assume when “ someone else on here thinks that their only thoughts must be followed” - you’ve done the day thing you told me not to do

As for my assumptions, I’m basing it on this post - you said if he would agree, and you haven’t even spoken to him about this - that’s a fact - you can’t suddenly tell me that’s incorrect, as I know that’s not the case, your actions tell a different story

But you’re right, I have no idea who you are, no idea your relationship dynamics or anything to do with that. - however you making this post is quite telling, people do things for reasons, and eventually you’ll have to make a decision

I never said if I had or hadn't discussed with my partner. You assumed instead of asking. You can't make me feel bad about something my partner knows about. And I shouldn't have to disclose every little detail... Frankly it could all be a story, made up... Yeah it's not made up , but the secretly admiring part is about admiring the individual of the topic from afar.

[Sa****]

My man pursued me, thank you very much. And I build him up, not break him down.

We often talk about what turns us on about other people and what we find attractive about them.

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13 minutes ago, SassyCas said:

You're a joke... You continue to assume I don't communicate with my partner... He knows, we openly talk about people who we find attractive. And yet you continue to make remarks about a situation you know nothing about. It's a FANTASY...

And my man keeps me perfectly happy. I just find the person of my fantasy attractive, my man knows this. So why don't you move on and go bother someone else.

And note I knew this guy from when I used to be married. So I'm sure you have your assumptions about that as well.

Did someone do you wrong? If so, sorry, but that doesn't give you the right to belittle me.

I’ve not belittled you, I’m just saying my opinion; I didn’t have all the knowledge, now I know the point I made was null and void as you’ve already talked about it, but how do you suppose people will react.

As for belittling, it’s kind of ironic how your response starts with “you’re a joke”? Don’t you think?

I’ve not said anything regarding you personally, I stated a fact based on the evidence you’ve provided in the post, and now new evidence presents itself it changes the facts.

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12 minutes ago, SassyCas said:

I never said if I had or hadn't discussed with my partner. You assumed instead of asking. You can't make me feel bad about something my partner knows about. And I shouldn't have to disclose every little detail... Frankly it could all be a story, made up... Yeah it's not made up , but the secretly admiring part is about admiring the individual of the topic from afar.

As for assuming instead of asking, you’ve stated repeatedly that you weren’t going to say about this - your arguments are tenuous at best - you say I belittle, you belittle me, you say I don’t have the facts you assume about me.

But regardless, doesn’t matter, you’ve talked about this feeling with your partner and they’ve accepted this - all good then, I think that is always the best course of action, communication, which you’ve done.

Then I wish you all the best, and hope you have a fruitful time, and maybe even get your fantasy fulfilled