A Good Submissive Embraces Growth and Self-Awareness

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Being a good submissive isn’t about getting it all right. It’s about being willing to learn, reflect, and grow. Submission is a journey, not a destination. It’s about knowing yourself deeply, communicating honestly, and evolving with your Dominant as the dynamic develops.

Growth doesn’t mean you’re “not enough”, it means you’re brave enough to want more, from yourself, from your submission, and from the connection you’re building.

That means:

You take time to check in with your own feelings and triggers.

You bring things to your Dominant when something changes inside you.

You see your submission as alive, not a fixed script, but something that deepens as you do.

You welcome feedback, not as a failure, but as a sign you’re worth investing in.

For example you’ve been kneeling for your Dominant every evening. At first, it felt beautiful. But lately it’s started to hurt your knees, and you’re beginning to dread it. A good submissive doesn’t suffer silently or power through until they burn out. They say:

> “This ritual means so much to me, but physically I’m struggling. Can we find a way to keep the meaning without hurting my body?”

That’s growth. That’s submission. That’s self-respect in service to devotion.


Submissives, how do you stay open to change and learning in your submission?
Dominants, how do you help your submissive grow without shame?

[Bi****]

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[Deleted Member]

Beautifully written and expressed! Truly a wonderful journey of evolution!

[DADDY_big]

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[Deleted Member]

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[Th****]

That was pure, eloquent poetry 💯

[Lo****]

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