Submissive to primal switch

[Za****]

So I’m usually really submissive, but I’ve started having these fantasies about me becoming a primal/pleasure switch. My issue right now is that I get worked up to it, and then I get nervous. How can I overcome it so I can make my fantasy come to reality?

[ho****]

"A Series of small changes" - Analogy: When you see someone flying a plane on TV or a movie you usually see them yank the yolk durring a nose dive or start flipping switches like crazy. Talk to any actual pilot and they'll tell you that's not how flying a plane actually works. When your fly a plane everything you do is a series of small simple adjustments. If the plane is going down you don't just yank the control stick...you pull back slightly, check how the plane responded then make another pull if you need too.

If you don't have a safeword I'd recommend using one. Start small. Maybe possible some simple lurking or stalking with your partner. If you get comfortable there make a small adjustment. Add some touch for capture or movement for chase. If your mind goes to a bad place use your safeword or withdrawl. Have patience with yourself and your partner. Keep the adjustments small and you'll eventually get the plane where you want it to go.

[As****]

Just let your primal instincts take over and naturally empower you. Then use the energy for your own and your partners pleasure while staying in the driving seat.

[Mr****]

Primality is a drive. Your nervousness is part of that drive, so it's OK. The thing is to listen to the "Hunter" occasionally.

As @houseofequalibrium said above, "small, simple adjustments." You are coming from a position of submission, so I would encourage you to think of this as almost Jekyll-Hyde in nature. These aren't the displays you'd normally feel at ease making—and that's the point. It's a different "you", if only for a split second: a version that exudes a certain power you may not ordinarily display.

You're learning to go "beyond yourself" so, yeah, as long as you're in "sub mode" you *should* feel a little uneasy (because it's not sub behavior haha). Just remember that with new expressions come new boundaries to learn—*learn them in earnest*.

[Sa****]

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[Beauty20]

I used to be a sub but I switched now to the right ones I'm a Dom and I love it. The takeover 🙌 is liberating. For all the times I submitted and still never got what I needed now I dominate and get what I want and need 😛

[st****]

9016405290 I’m in Jonesboro at the moment

[Ma****]

I love my primal/prey…. The most exhilarating of all the dominant engagements.