Li**** Posted May 29 Hotel or Air Bnb types. Using others homes makes me uncomfortable. I wouldn't want someone to do that in mine and I know young ***age me did this and it was gross and I always end up thinking back to it (wasnt my intention at all) I only say hotels (despite what you've written) out of respect and safety of you both. Then it isn't disrespecting anyone else's home/car and keeps you both safe. I know I don't hookup enough to have to afford crazy prices if I did this option. You've always got camping too but choose somewhere safe and secure again. Maybe it might be more affordable if we're talking someone more serious (dynamic/relationship/regular hookup) to do a weekend deal and meet up less often to save for.
ey**** Posted May 29 while I would also generally swing towards Hotels over Airbnb Airbnbs aren't people's homes. In the old day, yes. Let out a spare room for cash - oh you're away for a couple of weeks, let someone use your home when you're gone (there used to be a big culture of people from airbnbs visiting each others on like a circle of life) oh you've a second/holiday home you don't always need - let it out easier. These days. No one lives in a Airbnb. They're all owned by landlords and chains. This doesn't mean you should disrespect them, but they're owed no more respect than a hotel room.
Li**** Posted May 29 2 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said: while I would also generally swing towards Hotels over Airbnb Airbnbs aren't people's homes. In the old day, yes. Let out a spare room for cash - oh you're away for a couple of weeks, let someone use your home when you're gone (there used to be a big culture of people from airbnbs visiting each others on like a circle of life) oh you've a second/holiday home you don't always need - let it out easier. These days. No one lives in a Airbnb. They're all owned by landlords and chains. This doesn't mean you should disrespect them, but they're owed no more respect than a hotel room. If this one in response to me, from what I can tell from the thread, I'm actively saying either are good options and alike. Hotel rooms/air bnb's are used for all kinds and not everyone can afford their own home. One may be cheaper than the other or permit more privacy too. I personally don't like the ideas suggested of others homes and cars is what i stated. God knows what they get up to themselves or when they're cleaned and why would you want to, even?! (Rhetorical)
Mr**** Posted May 29 For myself when it comes to this… I’d always try to get to know the person and their habits prior to any suggestions from them. Me personally I think hotels are somewhat legit to hookup. There’s peace of mind and comfort… now the whole car thing… again that’s something you have to know someone on. No lie I’ve had some extra hot meets and things pretty much started right there in the car but do to comfort and what was desired we ended up back at her place. So generally just know the person because being in a clean environment and being safe is always a priority. So to sum it up love… just learn the individual and know what you will and won’t do at certain places and go from there. There’s nothing wrong with the hook-up we are grown just make sure nothing is wrong with the person 😂. Some people are just that thirsty that anytime anywhere is a real thing for them.
ey**** Posted May 29 1 hour ago, LittleSoulTease said: I personally don't like the ideas suggested of others homes and cars is what i stated. God knows what they get up to themselves or when they're cleaned and why would you want to, even?! (Rhetorical) got you, sorry I'd misunderstood what you said. My apologies. I agree completely with you.
Br**** Posted May 29 My favourite affordable hookup place is sex clubs! I go to a place called Club M4 40 bucks for potentially several hours, shower, bar, dance floor, kink library and orgy rooms, condoms provided for free, good stuff 👍
Br**** Posted May 29 I also use my car alot to fuck lol, I fold down the backseats of my rav4 and use a waterproof plushy mat over the back for comfort and no worries about sex fluids lol. Not fun having to clean squirt soaked into the seat 😅
Br**** Posted May 29 And if you have a tent in the summer, grab that and layer a bunch of blankets to fuck on
al**** Posted May 30 When I was younger I dated a Gothic girl in NYC who loved to use service stairs in the subway. She also had an ex who worked for transit. He's not her ex now 🤣 I am.
Deleted Member Posted May 30 Author Yesterday at 02:14 PM, eyemblacksheep said: I mean, the OP is not a man - and you assume the people they are meeting are men. But there's like a lot of circumstances why someone cannot use the place they live : whether it's because they live at home (which doesn't mean they shouldn't have a sex life) or have some form of flat share (diito) or live somewhere particularly small (having seen the size of some £1500pcm apartments in London... yeah, can see why people not being brought round) Hell. I was living alone with a cat and a girlfriend of the time was allergic to the cat so we always had to make other arrangements on where to meet. Thank you so much for this! It’s hard because I’m 18, non-binary, pansexual, and live at home atm and I don’t want to bring randos to my house, so there’s more options but less pre-conceived social norms for my kinda stuff.
Shadow3dLotus Posted May 30 In my youth any semi secluded area would work. The woods in the park was a constant site.
Di**** Posted June 3 Date you a realtor! Go bang at work or in the woods. Definitely go do it in the mud but wash after and check for ticks aftercare
Di**** Posted June 3 Thursday at 10:20 PM, BrownSuede said: I also use my car alot to fuck lol, I fold down the backseats of my rav4 and use a waterproof plushy mat over the back for comfort and no worries about sex fluids lol. Not fun having to clean squirt soaked into the seat 😅 This post is a bit self ingratiating for humor or for realsie? You should date someone names hot black silk or sum to match your name buddy
In**** Posted August 18 If it's a first meet I'd go for a hotel for sure if home is not an option. One with CCTV, and make sure you let people know where you are. I'd also recommend a hotel where YOU know where it is, so if something happens, you aren't lost in the middle of nowhere.
Deleted Member Posted August 19 Author 2 hours ago, Iniquity_xx said: If it's a first meet I'd go for a hotel for sure if home is not an option. One with CCTV, and make sure you let people know where you are. I'd also recommend a hotel where YOU know where it is, so if something happens, you aren't lost in the middle of nowhere. Get a room or get creative
Ma**** Posted August 23 I start to get creative. Last hook up I had none of us could host. So we met up and walked through a wooded area. Fucked on the bench in the dead of night. Was a great time
Mr**** Posted August 25 Airbnbs. Always. Acoustic privacy and viability for THC if that's an option. I'm way too vocal and expressive let alone all the noises happening, to be okay being in a hotel room and constantly having to worry about the room next to me. Pre pandemic hotels were more spaced out but since, they started to people directly close together. You might be able to ask for a room down and away from people but still.
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