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[25****]

Why is my inbox suddenly full of people ( 100 + ) and is there a quick way to delete them en made please 

[Ch****]

Settings/account settings/message filter. Won't fix the problem you have, but it will fix the future problem. You can limit who messages you. Funny enough that posting in the forums might only add to the DM attention you get. This showed up in our feed.

[Da****]

Dang, I wish mine blew up like that 😂😂

[Na****]

Some die of thirst whilst others drown 🥹

[Da****]

5 minutes ago, NativeForeigner said:

Some die of thirst whilst others drown 🥹

Quite the quiet wisdom here!!!

[kree90]

Let me know, too. I have over 600 unread messages 😩

[Ri****]

Lmfao you should be happy you got any messages!

[le****]

Maybe your popular?

[he****]

4 hours ago, NativeForeigner said:

Some die of thirst whilst others drown 🥹

I wish I’d be drowning in messages lol.

[Se****]

100 messages is nothing if it's all bland chats. I dunno about you all but I rather to have 1 or 2 chats that could.help me understand kinks than to have 100s of hi and hellos.

[Deleted Member]

32 minutes ago, central-fire12345 said:

100 messages is nothing if it's all bland chats. I dunno about you all but I rather to have 1 or 2 chats that could.help me understand kinks than to have 100s of hi and hellos.

This. 1 or 2 chats with deeper than smashing interest / intention would be more favorable for myself.

[Deleted Member]

6 hours ago, NativeForeigner said:

Some die of thirst whilst others drown 🥹

This is true.

[FE****]

Please keep to the topic.  Bemoaning that you don't get messages is NOT on topic.

I have removed many of the most recent examples.

[Deleted Member]

Every single lady is "popular" can't interact with them unless I pay. Kinda annoying and disheartening

[No****]

1 hour ago, notnert said:

Every single lady is "popular" can't interact with them unless I pay. Kinda annoying and disheartening

What defines someone as 'popular' and unable to message? Is it the amount of friends you have on here? I've only seen one person I was unable to message because of this

[Na****]

5 minutes ago, NoMenPleaseOnlyWomen said:

What defines someone as 'popular' and unable to message? Is it the amount of friends you have on here? I've only seen one person I was unable to message because of this

I think it's how many messages/profile views they get
I don't actually know, but that's what it looks like whenever it comes up for me 🤷‍♂️

[Deleted Member]

Why do you not reply to technical problems? I’ve sent 5 in the past 2 days and still no action, the site is running very poor at the moment? What are you doing about it?

[FETMOD-TF]

2 hours ago, TheMajor51 said:

Why do you not reply to technical problems? I’ve sent 5 in the past 2 days and still no action, the site is running very poor at the moment? What are you doing about it?

The forum moderators can only help with some queries but not all sorry as we do not have access to back office. All tickets that have been logged via the help menu are handled by the Customer Support team and they deal directly with those tickets.  At times there can be delays due to backlogs but they will reply to you and we just ask for a little patience during this time.  You can find further information on the team break down below 

https://www.fetish.com/topic/30949-community-managers-support-team-fetmods-the-big-difference/