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Daddy, Sir, Master?


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Depends on the situation, my mood & partner. Will use any and all of these honorifics when playing
I see them as completely different dynamic types. A Daddy is a very different expectation to me.
I prefer sir, daddy is what my kids call me, really kills the mood sometimes
Sir over everything. Daddy when you have daddy issues. Master when you are giving appreciation.
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I feel like Sir can be used as both affection and firmness! For me I like to toe the line between softness and stern so Sir is a nice in between for me!
I feel like master is more stern and no nonsense
Daddy pairs up more with Little and caregiver roles…it’s not something I would use personally but if its needed then I will 🤷‍♀️
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Sir, makes me feel like I’m back at school, so I don’t tend to use that.
I prefer Daddy. For me Daddy gives love, respect, rules and funishments. I need a DD I can look up to and want to please.
Not a fan of "Daddy". I prefer Eddie, it has the same ring to it.
I agree with you. The titles come with different vibes.
When it comes to two or more people, they can set whatever titles they want and the meaning behind them. In general, I do agree, but I don't find it to mean anything more than someone's bucket
I agree daddy in everything sir when being addressed and directed master when punished
I prefer to be called Sir, though with a few dynamics I've been in Daddy was accepted.
Master is reserved for one partner at this time for reasons I will not disclose here.
Yes I agree, daddy for anytime and then sir and master for stricter times
I'm pretty much with you, there. I believe Sir can be offered even before it's (directly) earnt, as a gesture of respect or affection, as well as being generic. Daddy and Master have more specific meanings that are primarily only relevant within that dynamic - but I can see a sub friend using them, if appropriate, to acknowledge the role of another. Probably more for Master though - a potential recognition of being A (someone else's) Master - doesn't quite fit as well for Daddy...that has a stronger implied "my" Daddy sense to it.

As a Master, I have occasionally been referred to as such by a sub friend, which I considered deeply respectful - and would never demand. Even while in an active M/s relationship, the only person who needs to use the title, knows it.

IMHO Daddy is a type of Dom, while Master is a distinct role. Outside of the Leather movement, I don't think it's formally defined, and some people misunderstand it as being an invalid claim to special standing - which it isn't, except to the one for whom it is indisputably special.

(I still remember some well-intentioned advice to not call Myself a Master...by people I don't believe understood the role.)
I'm a Daddy, that's what my enm relationship call me!!
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