No limits?

[Fr****]

Deeming something a red flag is kind of judgemental, if it's not your thing/kink , then keep it moving

[Ba****]

Some just haven’t thought about their limits yet. We were all new to BDSM once.

[DanDanK-ink]

Definitely a red flag. It’s not even up for debate, I see LOADS of women’s profiles as no limits. Instantly thought it’s bot or fake, because even someone who’s done a minute amount of research into kink would have limits.

[Tw****]

And to the people going "ahh red flag! What if you just got a knife and went crazy" I don't think you're practicing communication prior to your first meet ups with people... 😒
Is it such a buzzkill to simply give a safeword to anyone you consider meeting for the first time? Might save your life one day 😑

[Dy****]

They might just yet to experience them :) no limits for now should be an appropriate statement

[So****]

Absolutely consider it a red flag. As others have stated, I think of these profiles as fake.

[el****]

I say that cause I'm looking for *** and poop play. I'm not into anything considered illegal or degenerative. I prefer a bit of tact, and would like for an individual to simply inquire

[Ky****]

Definitely a red flag

[al****]

Some submissives haven't met some of their limits yet.. yes, I have a few limits I will not do, such as *** play, shit play, knife play, I would rather have the people ask what is off limits

[bo****]

Most definitely a red flag. However, if someone messages me and I find them attractive and theirs is listed that way I will straight up ask them why. 9/10 it's because they're new to the lifestyle.

[PrismaticTM]

I think it can be a flag of sorts but whether it is red or a bit pink depends on a bunch of other factors for me.

[al****]

Probably someone to watch out for, they could be a real *** slut, in which case someone could endup severely injured, their ego could be pushing more than their ID can take, or they may have never experenced how sever some things can become. Just too many considerations much better playing with the sane.

[al****]

I've been a break me submissive since age 16. My first dom taught me very good but i definitely put up a fight a few times with him each damn night but once i calmed down i submitted to him each moment it takes a good dom to train a break me submissive its not a easy task to do.. he taught me each whip on bare skin how each one felt.. I've done everything, and no dom broke me and still hasn't broken me yet

[d_guglieme]

Maybe not a red flag so much as a caution.

They are clearly more open than I am. I move past them if only for practicality.

[Ja****]

Is it actually set to “none” or does the system just show that when they haven’t put anything in there yet?

[Vo****]

Red flag sounds judgmental. I don’t yuck someone’s yum. Unless it involves minors.

[LthrDom]

Everyone has limits some admit it,some just aren't aware what may or may not be on the playground,so they simply don't know. Communication is key

[Va****]

There's always a limit. Its just a lack of effort on their part and shows how much effort they'll actually put into kink. They just want sex and they don't actually know what kink and limits are.

[De****]

Everyone has limits. When people tell me they have no limit I ask them questions like “would you let someone give you anal penetration with a cactus?” Pretty quickly they admit they have limits. In my experience most of the people who say that are new to the scene and don’t realize how wild it can get. Call it lack of imagination.

[gi****]

5 minutes ago, DenverBunny said:

Everyone has limits. When people tell me they have no limit I ask them questions like “would you let someone give you anal penetration with a cactus?” Pretty quickly they admit they have limits. In my experience most of the people who say that are new to the scene and don’t realize how wild it can get. Call it lack of imagination.

Being violated with a cactus probably is someone's thing.

[De****]

5 minutes ago, giffordge said:

Being violated with a cactus probably is someone's thing.

Yeah, but everyone has limits

[gi****]

1 minute ago, DenverBunny said:

Yeah, but everyone has limits

Yes. I just laughed a little at the thought.

[Deleted Member]

Same. If a profile does not list anything on the Limits portion in their bio / profile, I do not respond to messages. I warn on my profile, but I feel like no one reads profiles lol.

[Bi****]

I think it leaves it open for conversation because why would I list everything I might say no to? That’s just as hard as listing everything you might be into. I did a couple but it’s always a truly incomplete list anyway. So if they post none, I just ask like a human would.

[Ha****]

Everyone has a limit i think