No limits?

[Deleted Member]

I have a list of hard limits. These will align with who I'm meeting so then it becomes a "no limit" connectionship. But never have I ever heard of ZERO limits and would be a red flag for me too. Some of these fetishes even make me blush!

[MasterCT]

It's not a red flag. It's naivety. Next time you happen upon a person who confesses to have "no limits," as then their opinion on beastiality and ***.

More chances than not, that wee conversation will add two hard limits to their list.

[Dy****]

I don’t think it’s a red flag having no limits and actually we all tend to ***ly not have them or surpass them the more we get to explore and experience! For example:The limits I had when I was 15 years old looks like child play looking at them now ! The things I was pretty sure I’d never want to try in intimacy slowly started to attract me the more I’ve become curious about the art of pleasure! Me personally..I don’t have a particular main kink as im addicted to pleasure!I get curious,I try then feels like it’s just not enough and search for more ,it’s a never ending cycle where the more I experience the more extreme I crave!obviously I do have things that I’m still firmly against trying but at the same time ..I ended up trying things my younger self was sure we wouldn’t ever try so who knows..my limits today might be my kinks tomorrow..also not having limits on certain case ,might means first ..being clueless and inexperienced so yet to find them !or more poetically,just been a pleaser and allowing yourself to be used and ***d as the partner feels just for your own kink of seeing him unable to keep up with the pleasure you bring

[Dy****]

Also in case you think you do have limits,I invite you to spend some time together so that I can show you that limits are only meant to be surpassed

[DarkArts1066]

16 hours ago, Dyang5548 said:

Also in case you think you do have limits,I invite you to spend some time together so that I can show you that limits are only meant to be surpassed

“Limits are only meant to be surpassed”

- and that’s a Red Flag, right there.

Does this mean You don’t differentiate between ‘soft’ and ‘hard’ limits…?

I Do definitely have limits.
I will NOT be spending any time with you. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Mi****]

13 hours ago, DarkArts1066 said:

“Limits are only meant to be surpassed”

- and that’s a Red Flag, right there.

Does this mean You don’t differentiate between ‘soft’ and ‘hard’ limits…?

I Do definitely have limits.
I will NOT be spending any time with you. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I rest my case !!

[Mi****]

Yesterday at 03:36 AM, Dyang5548 said:

Also in case you think you do have limits,I invite you to spend some time together so that I can show you that limits are only meant to be surpassed

You sound like someone who doesn’t respect other’s limits. You’re a walking red flag 😂😂

[Dy****]

Monday at 09:10 PM, DarkArts1066 said:

“Limits are only meant to be surpassed”

- and that’s a Red Flag, right there.

Does this mean You don’t differentiate between ‘soft’ and ‘hard’ limits…?

I Do definitely have limits.
I will NOT be spending any time with you. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I do differentiate between hard and soft limits and would never *** someone to do try something they’re not comfortable trying,I might have expressed my self wrongly I apologise! I just meant that first :those who doesn’t specify limits,might have only not encountered them or too vanilla to think of those too hard for them yet ..
secondly we grow and get to explore ours and we often look for more once we get to experience them ,so the limits we have today ,might change tomorrow

[DarkArts1066]

19 hours ago, Dyang5548 said:

I do differentiate between hard and soft limits and would never *** someone to do try something they’re not comfortable trying,I might have expressed my self wrongly I apologise! I just meant that first :those who doesn’t specify limits,might have only not encountered them or too vanilla to think of those too hard for them yet ..
secondly we grow and get to explore ours and we often look for more once we get to experience them ,so the limits we have today ,might change tomorrow

No need to apologise if it was just a miscommunication… but thank you for doing so, nevertheless.

That happens to us all sometimes, but it does highlight how easy it is to misinterpret someone’s intentions, doesn’t it ?

And how easy it is to misread - or misunderstand a message.

Limits can change. That is true.
And communicating that is critically important at all times.

[Dy****]

Edited June 28 by Dyang5548

[Dy****]

3 hours ago, DarkArts1066 said:

No need to apologise if it was just a miscommunication… but thank you for doing so, nevertheless.

That happens to us all sometimes, but it does highlight how easy it is to misinterpret someone’s intentions, doesn’t it ?

And how easy it is to misread - or misunderstand a message.

Limits can change. That is true.
And communicating that is critically important at all times.

 

 

Your previous understanding of what I meant and followed answer ,reflects how easily misinterpretations as well as miscommunication ruins our point of view ! If I hadn’t corrected the way I was expressing my point ,you would’ve stick with your previous view of me..and I find much similar the free red flag given to a doubtful no limits on a bio ..if I didn’t give it a chance maybe,I might have missed a much more unexpected pleasure 

[Dy****]

Tuesday at 10:35 AM, MistressKaycie said:

You sound like someone who doesn’t respect other’s limits. You’re a walking red flag 😂😂

I find it borderline unreachable expressing my self as I’d love in English as it’s my second language,but I hope my follow up explanation gives my means justice

[Mi****]

Yesterday at 01:29 AM, Dyang5548 said:

I find it borderline unreachable expressing my self as I’d love in English as it’s my second language,but I hope my follow up explanation gives my means justice

That’s a much better explanation 😀

[funkycheetah]

No cactus anel penetrating has always been where I  draw the line, lol!!