Why is it always the ones who don’t read, who shout the loudest?

[De****]

Say that shit with your chest 💯❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[ac****]

It's your profile!!!! I mean do women think they just post a bunch of exotic things they want done to them and not expect aggressive men to jump on it??? Use your brain not your cleavage or imagination

[ki****]

I had a female on here show me some of the messages she got, and it was horrifying and appalling. Report those people. They don’t belong in a community.

I also have been paying attention here and on other similar networks, feels like it’s 10:1 men to women, so I can only imagine how overwhelming it is, and how impossible it might feel to find a good human being in that gender. We do exist, and hate that other kind.

But most importantly, report them and get rid of them fast for the sake of the community.

[va****]

1 minute ago, ace41 said:

It's your profile!!!! I mean do women think they just post a bunch of exotic things they want done to them and not expect aggressive men to jump on it??? Use your brain not your cleavage or imagination

Found the guy that doesn’t ask and just assumes! ^ 🚩

[De****]

1 minute ago, whimsical said:

Found the guy that doesn’t ask and just assumes! ^ 🚩

Yeah is on the “well she wore a short skirt and drank at a party so her consent was implied” train. 🙄

[Mo****]

It's nice to know I'm not the only one experiencing this. I find it genuinely disgusting how a lot of dudes on here completely disregard almost everything in your bio without shame. Then the moment that some of them realize they won't get what they want, they get disrespectful.

[va****]

1 minute ago, DenverBunny said:

Yeah is on the “well she wore a short skirt and drank at a party so her consent was implied” train. 🙄

Anyone in the kink community that thinks expressing our sexuality is invitation to a scene that isn’t pre negotiated should not be on this app.

[De****]

3 minutes ago, whimsical said:

Anyone in the kink community that thinks expressing our sexuality is invitation to a scene that isn’t pre negotiated should not be on this app.

💯consent, respect, and communication are EVERYTHING in kink. Saying because she has kinks and sexy pics means she needs to accept that men will *** their kinks on her shows: 1) you don’t understand the respect of limits 2) you don’t know how to communicate and accept explicit communication 3) that you don’t understand that another person must consent to your kinks. Time for someone to learn about this lifestyle 📖📖👨🏼‍🏫👨🏼‍🏫

[ac****]

7 minutes ago, whimsical said:

Found the guy that doesn’t ask and just assumes! ^ 🚩

Nope I read the profile and found why you attracted aggressive men, any fool with 2 brain cells can see it. Just use your brain to find ppl and not your body and erotic imagination. It's not that hard really.

[va****]

7 minutes ago, DenverBunny said:

💯consent, respect, and communication are EVERYTHING in kink. Saying because she has kinks and sexy pics means she needs to accept that men will *** their kinks on her shows: 1) you don’t understand the respect of limits 2) you don’t know how to communicate and accept explicit communication 3) that you don’t understand that another person must consent to your kinks. Time for someone to learn about this lifestyle 📖📖👨🏼‍🏫👨🏼‍🏫

I feel some men join this community not to play but to just harass women and make us uncomfortable and then when we point it out they’re like, but you are kinky?! As if being sensual is consent to being a conduit to their fantasies and desires with no regard for our own wants to participate or not. Thank you for bringing this topic up. I keep explaining why them diving into explicit conversations without communication and limits is subversive to BDSM in dms. It’s so tiring.

[ma****]

Men have the issue that every profile you read has a woman saying 50 million things she wants to the point where men have gotten tired of reading all of it because half of it's not true. I'll say for instance when I really was looking for a girlfriend I was on the dating apps tinder okay Cupid plenty of fish I was even paying for a couple in every girl in their profile had not looking for a hookup. In hundreds of profiles it was a girl complaining about how men interacted. At first I didn't take any offense to this I read it and went oh there must be a bunch of dogs just showing penises and being weird. I then started going out on dates with these girls that had no hookups in their profiles and I wanted a girlfriend I wanted a wife someday so I replied in kind no I don't want to hook up and at the end of every single one of those dates the girl was like can we go back to your place she wanted to hook up. To me after the 40th date of every girl just wanting to hook up because I'm charming and charismatic it really got on my nerves and I started viewing what women write in their profiles as absolute bullshit some might actually feel that way but it's what they want to believe they are versus what they are. So now a lot of men see your profile see your basic information and just talk to you from there because reading the rest of it for the majority of women is just absolutely not going to matter there are the few that are really passionate and very straightforward and very open but the majority in my experience do not present they're real selves. It's the same thing with the filters I didn't even know how pervasive that was and so many women look nothing like what their pictures are and a lot of women that I went out on dates with I thought looked better without the makeup or filter. So that would be my answer to your question from a male's perspective. I very much wanted the idealistic version of the woman that is betrayed to so many men to be true it just doesn't we're all people That's how I treat everybody now You're all equals I'm not going to treat a woman any differently than I treat a man.

[te****]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[va****]

7 minutes ago, ace41 said:

Nope I read the profile and found why you attracted aggressive men, any fool with 2 brain cells can see it. Just use your brain to find ppl and not your body and erotic imagination. It's not that hard really.

Sounds like victim blaming to me.

[va****]

3 minutes ago, mass595 said:

Men have the issue that every profile you read has a woman saying 50 million things she wants to the point where men have gotten tired of reading all of it because half of it's not true. I'll say for instance when I really was looking for a girlfriend I was on the dating apps tinder okay Cupid plenty of fish I was even paying for a couple in every girl in their profile had not looking for a hookup. In hundreds of profiles it was a girl complaining about how men interacted. At first I didn't take any offense to this I read it and went oh there must be a bunch of dogs just showing penises and being weird. I then started going out on dates with these girls that had no hookups in their profiles and I wanted a girlfriend I wanted a wife someday so I replied in kind no I don't want to hook up and at the end of every single one of those dates the girl was like can we go back to your place she wanted to hook up. To me after the 40th date of every girl just wanting to hook up because I'm charming and charismatic it really got on my nerves and I started viewing what women write in their profiles as absolute bullshit some might actually feel that way but it's what they want to believe they are versus what they are. So now a lot of men see your profile see your basic information and just talk to you from there because reading the rest of it for the majority of women is just absolutely not going to matter there are the few that are really passionate and very straightforward and very open but the majority in my experience do not present they're real selves. It's the same thing with the filters I didn't even know how pervasive that was and so many women look nothing like what their pictures are and a lot of women that I went out on dates with I thought looked better without the makeup or filter. So that would be my answer to your question from a male's perspective. I very much wanted the idealistic version of the woman that is betrayed to so many men to be true it just doesn't we're all people That's how I treat everybody now You're all equals I'm not going to treat a woman any differently than I treat a man.

If women’s profiles are above your reading level, that’s a you problem.

[De****]

2 minutes ago, whimsical said:

If women’s profiles are above your reading level, that’s a you problem.

I appreciate that you read this response even if you felt like it wasn’t true 🥰

[ma****]

If that's what you interpreted from what I said that's sad

[va****]

Just now, mass595 said:

If that's what you interpreted from what I said that's sad

Womp womp.

[De****]

1 minute ago, whimsical said:

Womp womp.

Did we just become best friends …. Yes!

[ma****]

Are you seriously grade school no wonder you're getting the reactions you do lol. Here I'll reply and kind I'm rubber and you're glue whatever you say to me bounces off of me and sticks to you now we're on the same level

[va****]

2 minutes ago, DenverBunny said:

Did we just become best friends …. Yes!

You wanna go do karate in the garage?

[ac****]

23 minutes ago, whimsical said:

Anyone in the kink community that thinks expressing our sexuality is invitation to a scene that isn’t pre negotiated should not be on this app.

Didn't say that, I, MYSELF did assume such. However to be clueless as to any sort of implication that could have led to such, either means you're just ignorant & truly clueless or just wanting to gripe about something. It's really not that difficult to understand, for most I guess.

[ma****]

Wow this is the level we're on fine. I'm rubbing your glue whatever You say to me bounces off of me and sticks to you

[La****]

A-f**ing-men.
Again for those on the back, please!

[ma****]

I'm rubber in your glue damn it I had such a good comeback

[va****]

1 minute ago, ace41 said:

Didn't say that, I, MYSELF did assume such. However to be clueless as to any sort of implication that could have led to such, either means you're just ignorant & truly clueless or just wanting to gripe about something. It's really not that difficult to understand, for most I guess.

Hit dogs holler.