Why is it always the ones who don’t read, who shout the loudest?

[1m****]

Agreed! Well said!

[se****]

Totally agreed. We need a name for it bc it’s not isolated to one site. It’s like, instead of wanting to fulfill your fantasy, they seem to be wanting to hijack it. Maybe try it on for size? Like live interactive porn 🤯

[oh****]

👏 I am new to the app this week and was dismayed (though not surprised) to see and experience so much of this in a place for people who *should* understand the value of communication and respect. So many unsafe people. It's not cute!

[th****]

People these days need to learn communication and respect
I’m new to this app

[an****]

Well said! I find most of the messages I receive are in line with this post. Occasionally I’ll address the red flag but more I often than not I block immediately without responding. It’s very disheartening

[di****]

They spam the same messages to everyone that matches their basic preferences (like cis female) to see who bites. I've definitely seen it happen on Fet when friends and I got the same copy and pasted messages from the same people.