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I have different names for different playmates. I’m a switch so it helps me keep in mind who im playing with and how.
Try master. See how that feels the first time you use it.
I dont like being called daddy. Its way hotter hearing my actual name, the daddy thing bothers me.
Yeah, I've gotta admit the daddy thing has always creeped me out, too. Master, Dom, Sir, or just an actual name should work. Try Mr. " last name".
If it’s in my head I’d pick Magister because I have a masters degree so technically I’ve earned it yeah. Or else you can call me tater salad lol or vitamin D. Maybe Ah Mister Stagger Lee would be good. Call me Choda boy? Nah. Muzungu is bad ass
I get why people will post that they are looking for a daddy. But being called that is weird. I prefer terms that have a linkage to my vanilla role, so it seems more realistic and is more of a turn on. Boss, Professor, Master are good for this. In roleplay Teacher, Sir, Count, King, Prince, Lord, Father.The key is finding something that resonates with both you and your dynamic.
I’ll just throw one out for anime fans. Besides Sensei which, is also a good one (equivalent to teacher, professor, doctor etc), there is senpai which is used to denote someone who is senior to you in a given hierarchy. The opposite is kohai.
I think its kinda weird being called that. Its not a turn on to me at all.
15 hours ago, lansdale53825 said:

I dont like being called daddy. Its way hotter hearing my actual name, the daddy thing bothers me.

Took getting to page 3 for this to come up?!?!

Spot on my man. Real name trumps all in my book as well, even when used without affect. And when it is spoken drenched in affect...devastating.

I'll be kicking around the rest of this morning a bit annoyed that I didn't think to say this :praise::clapping::praise:

It would be sensible to have the conversation with your dominant. After all they are the one that will be acknowledging, identifying, and embracing said “term” and something you both need to connect with.

Otherwise the most sensible comments on here refer to using his real name.
As highlighted by @ScalpelPrecision what brings more deeper respect, and connection than that…
PleasureTopDom
An honorific should be specific to your D/s relationship. Personally, I don't like that "Daddy" was fetishized away from that dynamic, but that's just me. Talk it out and see what feels comfortable based on your niche. Make up your own, even
Whatever name you two pick, it should make his boner prick up and your twat tingle more. If not, keep trying something that does.
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14 hours ago, Shadow3dLotus said:

Chef, Prince of Sayians, Kage, Glorious Leader

Chef, I like that. Chef is a type of master. Thinking back to that old British TV show, he was a bit of a bastard/sadist as well :smiling_imp:

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1 hour ago, celine_asianmistress said:
Pap-paa

I like this one.

Rather than the word Daddy, or a similar one. Perhaps a word that better empowers the connection. Perhaps one that empowers him when he hears it, to encourage control, action etc... So not, Turtle.

This largely depends on personality and the moments it's most used. "My Hero"..... "My Love".... "Stud Muffin"..... it's really up to you "Teacher"... "Guardian".... "Darling"...
Perhaps simplicity is more impactful, "Sir"...

Personally, It wouldn't matter, but follow up actions could be encouraged as a result. ^_^

Fekking Percy Pig.... :clapping: 
 

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I have had a couple of people early on in discussions call me Daddy. I pretty quickly ask them not to. I don't like it for myself. I reach a mutual agreement with my subs about what we call each other, and I try and make it suit the dynamic I have with each lady. Some options could be Sir, Master, my Master, Mister, King, my King, Brute, Lord, my Lord.

Think about the dynamic you have and any nuances in your relationship that you can personalise it to. It will then have context and deeper meaning for you both.

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