Concerning collars

[Ho****]

This is very helpful I was having an extremely hard time explaining this to my partner. He has always been interested in kink but im finally allowing him to explore it

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Yesterday at 08:44 PM, eyemblacksheep said:

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Yep my first thoughts exactly. Also made a very sarcastic reply lol.

[Vi****]

Yesterday at 06:56 PM, tiredhippiegoth said:

My collar is self owned and has been for a while as I am solo poly. I bought a 1977 rabies vaccination collar from a thrift store for 50 cents. it is a chunky chain with a small, flat rhombus tag that says the info. The size can be adjusted by letting the tail end hang down and it fits as a ***r and short leash for grabbing. This is sports mode, meant for kinky dates, and my partners know that when I wear it like that, it's meant to be grabbed eventually. I also wear it as a fashion accessory, a complete necklace where both ends close together and it is a looser, chunky chain. No one, and I mean NO ONE asks me what it is about. I am a goth, so maybe my overall aesthetic blends with it, but I only ever get compliments when I wear collars. Even leather ones with rings are just basic fashion accessories now. No one bars an eye.

That's actually a pretty cool idea

[No****]

Im a bit old fashioned in that sense I suppose, collars are a BIG deal to me and I take them quite seriously. If I collar you in ANY sense im taking things seriously with you.

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Being collared is permission to shut off my brain and float into sub space

[Timcornbread]

Dom Daddy here. Collars to me and Kitten are a daily reminder of our commitment to each other. When we entered the lifestyle, we live today we had a simple formal at home ceremony. We basically redid our wedding vows to each other with the wording to fit our new agreed upon DD/lg. I collared her in a custom-made leather collar, and she shackled my right ankle with an eternity collar/shackle.

The shackle tool, I had a jeweler friend fashion it into a pendant she wears as a day collar. Her favorite pendant. Day collars are any necklace I have given her. She has the leather for play and more jewelry like collars/ heavy necklaces for formal outings. Also a basic pink dog collar for when Kitten brats herself into the dog house. it's rough on her skin and corrects quickly.

Her collars and my shackle as earlier said is a second wedding for us. It  has improved us from what we were to what we have become to each other. A recommitment on a deeper level of trust.