Si**** Posted July 31 Hello everyone. I'm a Sissymaid. Yes that means submissive and into maiding / uniforms etc. For me, rather than prance around in a cheap uniform, I will either wear a proper housekeeping uniform or an expensive fetish one - but I've become aware that I'm more into authentic experience rather than titillation. This means, I really do want to be put to work and do chores. In many ways its quite vanilla really. Im just wondering for others out there (whether you be sub or domme) is this the same or similar for you? Quite often roleplay isnt necessarily following a 'real' narrative. To put this into perspective, I've cleaned homes, in full uniform, taking 3-4hrs and I have done a stint in a hotel housekeeping team and I've loved all of it. As I reflect on what Im getting from it - there seems to be an air of authenticity and that's what I enjoy - the more real, the better.
La**** Posted July 31 That means youre a domestic slave. You love to submit with taking care of domestic chores and get your dominant to tell you what to do. Since you love the realness of it, that means its your major kink. There is nothing wrong with finding joy in being a domestic servant. In fact, its one of the most popular kink. As a domme myself, I see it as one of the best selling point for a sub. So congratulations with accepting this part of you.
Si**** Posted July 31 Author 9 minutes ago, Lady_King said: That means youre a domestic slave. You love to submit with taking care of domestic chores and get your dominant to tell you what to do. Since you love the realness of it, that means its your major kink. There is nothing wrong with finding joy in being a domestic servant. In fact, its one of the most popular kink. As a domme myself, I see it as one of the best selling point for a sub. So congratulations with accepting this part of you. Many thanks. Labels are tricky things - but yeah I suppose so. I'm into the whole general concept of being a 'sissy' but it expresses itself in me primarily as a maid, but I've also done secretary / office girl stuff to. But I try and keep it as authentic as I can in terms of the clothing and the role. The more real it feels, the better!!
Deleted Member Posted July 31 I’ve heard the term service sub used too. I hope others connect with you on here. Someone to share experiences with x
Si**** Posted July 31 Author 9 minutes ago, Lou-3645 said: I’ve heard the term service sub used too. I hope others connect with you on here. Someone to share experiences with x Thank you - that's very kind of you. I think some people find it a bit too 'odd' for them but let's see.
Deleted Member Posted July 31 4 minutes ago, Sissymaid said: Thank you - that's very kind of you. I think some people find it a bit too 'odd' for them but let's see. Isn’t it the first rule, not to judge other people’s kinks?! Nothing is odd. We like what we like and we don’t all like the same thing. BDSM covers a wide range and the community should be where you feel most accepted x
Si**** Posted July 31 Author 23 minutes ago, lacroix_sub said: This is awesome! I would love to do this sometime It takes time to build the connections and the trust with a friend network - but it is very doable. I wish you well with it and if you want tips etc, drop me a DM.
Gulfcoastdays Posted August 4 It has a bit of control in this dynamic, believe it or not. Tidying things up can be looked at twofold. As you clean and marketing ready for occupants, you are not doing via direction from anyone else. You are the holder, the official or, the operations, and the quality control for your actions. When I come into a place that I am so impressed with via the talent that put it here for me to enjoy, I look at this person as a creator. A creator of respect, decor, ambience, atmosphere….power. Though in your art form, you provide with power, and freely exchange that power, without request, or in compliance it seems. Yes, you label, name, and see yourself as sissymaid. Though sissymaid,dressed in full garb, provides an excellent product, which others use as a form to impress the one by their side, and some , more than like all, pay for it. You have a little more in you than sun my friend. You do have respect, for yourself, art, and others……and for possibly a dynamic you’ve yet to try. Interesting. I’d love to know more. But that’s me. I am always up for good communication.
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