Anybody else anxious attacher?

[ye****]

I also have AuDHD. Got to try not to info dump and overwhelm who you are talking to with walls of text.

[il****]

Often asking how they're feeling and communicating how you're feeling usually helps for me!
Just verbatim "how are you feeling" and saying "I really like you, I feel were hitting it off well, and I appoglize if I come on too strong"

But generally I dont have much experience on this area, and this approach might be what works best for other folks with autism ^^'

(Still never a bad habit to check up on people! And I personally like doing so while breaking kayfabe (as in, don't try to hide you're checking up on them! In my eyes that makes it clearer that it's *okay* to not be feeling good! As opposed to a question like "and you're having a lot of fun too aren't you kitten?" Which a sub would maybe feel a bit guilty about saying "I'm not really and need to go to bed" too))

[in****]

I'm AuDHD as well. I know what you mean.