Did a member doubt/complaint cause a sudden Verification check mid conversation ?

[ey****]

8 hours ago, VKD said:

I've seen this in action too. Several friends booted off with eons of 'service' and zillions of interactions. One who was extremely active in Chat, daily, fell out with someone who disrespected the Chat rules, as did others who joined in on their side. Picked up one more penalty point and got a life ban

I have an understanding of the point rules - and - there are a lot you need to amass before getting banned.     That said, mistakes do happen - I know years ago I'd been placing links in response and got 3 penalty points instead of one. 

[Ka****]

6 hours ago, VKD said:

Yep... just looked it up. KaufMich.de which is "Buy Me", same idea as pay me. It's an escort site. So the immoral of the story is that if you hint at anything remotely commercial, your profile is shunted over to their sex worker affiliate, whether you agree to it or not. 

Yup, and as I said. Wasn't even asking for payment and nit a dom. Thanks for tracking this down now I can direct sex pests to it haha

[VK****]

28 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

yeah in the olden days, they were more welcome - in fact arguably the early history of this site was kind of like a "Domme Directory" for Pro Dommes, especially popular in Germany, and over time, of course rules changed and they all got kicked off.  

Yes indeed, their own section at the bottom of the Who's Online with the € symbol on their photo which they had to pay for. Prolific photo and video posters too... Remember a certain devilish Nina and a Katrina. Ironically they both feature in my "Popular videos" frequently.

In those days the gripe was that the € symbol had been attached to an "innocent" account which proved much easier to resolve.

[ey****]

5 hours ago, VKD said:

Remember a certain devilish Nina and a Katrina.

@SabinaMachtFertigfrom the German site is <3 fire.

5 hours ago, VKD said:

In those days the gripe was that the € symbol had been attached to an "innocent" account which proved much easier to resolve.

yeah, usually by someone overpaying by accident as those accounts came with a much higher monthly premium 

[Pa****]

The report feature is severely flawed, and it seems they will leave up paying accts whether the rules were broken or not.

Similar sitch: i was talking for a month with someone, and then poof they are gone.
...Except i always get another contact method as soon as possible into the convo, or freely give them mine, explaining how this site random bans ***ps.

Even if keeping the convo on the site, get or give a backup method.

Some incel reported her for financial because she asked if they could go to dinner.
We have been dating 3 mths now, because she contacted me via the info i gave her. Fet: fail.

Meanwhile, 4 scammer profiles (not even necessarily escort profiles - just pure scammers) that have Findom right in their profiles and "give me ***" and "paypig" and have asked for $ on and off the site to be sent... are still up and online, after being reported WITH SCREENSHOTS 3 times.
Explain this FET !!!

[Pa****]

Wow the site just banned the shortened slang for people as if it is a sexual term lol. Way to go, keep us safe

[Enigma888]

Well, good news, she is back and our messages now reappear, it took 77 screen shots to save them all... a couple of hours ago she messaged but i was busy... just waiting to find out if all is as it was as things seem to change rapidly with some people given maybe other opportunities while the block happened... wish me well... and her too... thanks for all the replies here, it has been quite educational for a new member like mesel'... wish you all perfect outcomes and connections, meets etc... good luck All...

[Enigma888]

Ok, so now Bad news, i sent her his forum thread and she has now read my last messages and 'recipient ignored you' stops any more... i am mortified, that woman was the best ever contact in dating... but the stoppage has taken her elsewhere now, maybe because i did the reverse image and turned her off that way, but no message back to say goodbye after greeting me earlier... what a pile of garbage due to the blockage... now lost her... going to bed, i am done...

[Enigma888]

To the woman of this thread, i never doubted you once, even the reverse image didn't make me think you were fake, just older pics maybe, my thoughts on that were simply musing possibility... i am now devastated that you unfriended and blocked me, likely due to my comments here on that part... please at least tell me why you left and say goodbye... or maybe you just got mad at me for what i said and maybe you will recover and refriend me...which would be perfect, you took me up by returning and now i am cast into the dust of hell for you blocking me... i wanted you in my life for ever and that would never change... I wish you all thing perfect, thanks for the time we spent, it was the best ever exchange with anyone in my life... Angel Wings over Thee xxx

[FE****]

The topic is now no longer about a general area that may affect all users; it's strictly personal.  The lady can message you directly if she decides, so I've closed replies.

As always, be cautious and be sure you know what you are getting into.