What does true Submission mean to you?

[Deleted Member]

For the subs who live this lifestyle beyond sessions, what does true submission mean to you?

Is it obedience without question? Anticipating needs? Surrendering ego?

How do you actively practice or improve on your submission day to day?

[St****]

It feels like there's an invisible string where the Dom controls you. The pleasure you feel about being someone's property and the idea of serving a goddess is unmatched.

[So****]

I never been with a sub,I just want to experience it and start off gentle w the female I’m w,I want to build respect understanding and care that way we can have a great relationship and understanding

[Deleted Member]

For me submission is the fulfillment found on servitude, in your day to day life you can nurture the submissive in you through acts of service to all of your surroundings and to yourself, things like cooking for family, making coffee for a love one, lightning some candles, grooming your body, lots of things can be meant as acts of service. And maybe it's because I'm a women but I find that expressing femininity and expressing submission go hand in hand, of course everybody can express both things regardless of their gender

[at****]

For me it means that she is sexually submissive to me whenever I desire it unless of course she's sick or something and whatever way I desire. But I of course taken to account her desires and seek to always make sure that she's satisfied. I also help for fully take care of her financially if she chooses not to work outside the home. I treat her with love kindness and respect and show her how much I love her daily and tell her so. I always put her best interest first in my decisions. In return for all that she is largely completely sexually submissive to me which is a huge turn on for me because it's basically an act of service to me to show me that she fully trust me and loves me and wants my desires fulfilled. Tells me that she's my girl and my girl only. And I return fulfill hers desires and love her fully and completely and make sure that she always feels loved. Lots of romance snuggling. Go to sleep spooning her at night. Generally make her feel loved and appreciated always. I've had this before but I don't currently have it now although I wish I could have it again. I've been looking for a woman for this scenario to fall deeply in love with each other. I'm a business owner and my house is paid for and everything and I've got a queen bed here and it's half empty. I had custody of my kids for 11 years and they're grown now. I wouldn't mind doing it all over again to raise more *** with the right lady. It's not a requirement. Love is a requirement.

[Fi****]

When my mind escapes my body and the *** I embrace and totally relaxes my soul

[fe****]

Submission is deeper than just sexual acts. it's the enjoyment found when serving my Sir. It also allows me to let go of the reigns and trust in his decisions. In all other areas of my life, I am in control, so let go of that, and trusting him to do what's best for both of us is a huge relief. It gives me the chance to relax and be a softer version of myself.

[Fi****]

Ok e wish I experienced it

[co****]

Giving in to your deepest desires

[De****]

To me it means that someone else is in charge of everyday things. I’m just responsible for what they tell me I’m responsible for.

[ge****]

"True" submission is very much an individual thing and varies wildly from person to person - so I can only speak for myself, and even then I'm not sure it can be defined.
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It's no single specific act, it's a state of mind and way of being that comes from within.
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Sure there are acts which most would consider submissive, but those don't define submission - it very much is an innate thing which as I said will vary from person to person and even circumstance to circumstance.

[Deleted Member]

It is completely abdicating free will

[Deleted Member]

For me surrendering ego and and enjoying my vulnerability and weak sides ❤️ I am learning to listen domme energy more, feel and follow the subtle body language.. that’s why I enjoy calm dommes I feel them more real and deep

[Deleted Member]

I want a Dom i can service and gratify her

[Gi****]

Obedience. Most definitely without question. It took over a year but now I am totally obedient, fully complying with every command my Domme gives me. I also understand that whilst some orders she gives are what she wants adhered to a few she commands to stretch my level of obedience to my limit and beyond. For her patience and time spent training me I will be forever grateful.

[Deleted Member]

Trust, purpose, enrichment and love for myself. You should believe and feel that your doms have your best interest in minds. You give your body, your mind and heart over to them for them to do as they wish. As long as your boundaries are met as well, there should be no ***, unless you're into that. I've have a *** boner or ten in my life haha. Submitting to someone and making their needs an objective, vocalized or intuitively making their burdens lessen and their passions fan higher is a cool rush. They give you skills, knowledge and at times a glimpse into their impressive being, only helps strengthen the bond as well as emboldening the submissive. I feel quietly confident when I have made my betters proud or pleased, more capable. I think taking the time to be mindful of others and their struggles makes the submission easier to tap into. Being able to empathize and random acts of kindness to me seem like great exercises.

[Deleted Member]

Well, a little taken aback at the four letter word for scared is censored haha I'm sure someone ruined that for everyone spectacularly.

[Deleted Member]

Anticipation ❤️

[ta****]

Ultimate trust in your dominant to have your safety, limits, boundaries completely understood. And communication with them to ensure that they know about any evolution in them