Discovery

[Deleted Member]

What have you discovered about yourself when you first started getting into kinks ?

[Le****]

I have control over very few aspects of my life, that’s why it’s so intoxicating when a partner truly hands over control

[kevan]

When I first started? I'm a naughty boy, lol

[de****]

That's there's more than just me like this

[su****]

That being humiliated an having 0 control is the best feeling in the world 😅

[At****]

That I enjoy controlling things even though it's not sexual, something about taking care of someone in every way I'm capable of and knowing the person accepts it even when it's not sexual has a big appeal to me

[pu****]

I have gotten comfortable with ***

[Gr****]

Since my last response was removed... That I prefer the term "Sir"

[Se****]

Can't learn anything about oneself or others if no one is around. So my experience will be nothing.

[df****]

That the control always resides with the sub and she graciously yields her control to her dom for the satisfaction of both the dom and the sub. It’s a remarkable dynamic. We are fortunate.

[Me****]

Im a bigger sadist than I thought.
Im a masochist by nature, but once I used my claws on someone else when I bought them for me, the gears started turning.

[ju****]

I enjoy many more things than I thought I would, it showed me how out of touch with myself I was. If that makes sense?

[Sa****]

10 hours ago, dfwdom said:

That the control always resides with the sub and she graciously yields her control to her dom for the satisfaction of both the dom and the sub. It’s a remarkable dynamic. We are fortunate.

Amen, finally a DOM that knows who has the control!

[Sa****]

That I am more of a submissive leaning brat, there is still so much more I need to figure out, especially when it comes to my limits being a sub

[ol****]

He must conquer my mind first before I willingly submit my body to him

[Da****]

That every day is a new discovery, and while the sub is in control, it's always the Doms job to make sure that they get *** with that feeling they give them. Which I am getting better at as I develop more as a DOM. I also have learned that I enjoy Sadism WAAAAYYYYY more than I ever thought I would. Love being a Sadist and Predator Primal Play is amazing and I'm always developing as a pleasure Dom, because to me the pleasure of my sub/Slave is ALWAYS THE 1ST BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE

[Ne****]

My dom side

[Th****]

Conquering a women's mind that unlocks this beautiful poetic energy that makes it soo seductive.

[ExileMedea]

Mutual  fulfilment and pleasure is a rebellion worth committing to. The quest for my future Dom is an act of self love. The idea of giving complete control to my future Dom is exhilarating. Praise and punishment. Trust. I’m ready to learn and let go. I yearn for my future Dom to discipline me. I yearn to be obedient. A world that has rules, consent, where I will know my place because I will be put in my place  is where I belong. It is the only world that makes sense to me as far as I know. I’m ready to explore and to learn. I’m ready to act on my kinks that were never fulfilled. 

[pi****]

That I liked anal play

[Gi****]

Self esteem, confidence, trust, safety, transparency, vulnerability. There are so many aspects that make me feel much more connected than just physical. When I understand those I have more fun, more intense pleasure.

[Deleted Member]

I feel more at peace within me.

[Deleted Member]

I learned that I was actually pretty good at having sex, lol. I used to think there was something wrong with me and wondered why I was never able to last more than a couple of minutes. But then I discovered kink, edging, and playful eroticism, and then sex started coming more naturally to me. It's wasn't some monotonous "chore" just to push in and pull out out of a sense of "duty." I am truly grateful to be on this path 🙏

[ki****]

How important consent is to me.

[pu****]

That my kinks are my kinks and if people don't like it,forget them,...... respectfully of course