Who am I

[Deleted Member]

Who am i?
Am I a mother?
Am I a wife?
Am I a ghost?
I have lost who I am
I feel like a shadow of who I was
I was outgoing
I was strong
I was brave
Now I live in ***
I question everything I do
I have lost who I am
And I don't know how to find mysel

[wh****]

I know how you feel I lost my wife right before Christmas last year and now I don't feel like I'm anything anymore I don't feel human but I don't have enough good in me to be an *** and the way I walk around the house wailing and screaming all night sometimes I truly think that I am the ghost haunting this place

[Ba****]

Breathe,
Take it one day at a time.
It took 6 tries for me to get out, now I’m six months out.
It’s still hard, I’m still lost, I’m still sad.
I’m not in fight or flight constantly any more, I have a bedroom door with a lock. I can have my own space.
You will find little comforts, your own pace. Being a mother or a wife didn’t make you who you are. You were beautiful enough to deserve those titles, and no one can remove them from you except you. Do not diminish yourself. Take time to learn what make YOU happy. Love, laugh, smile and live a little. Blessed be beautiful, just keep swimming💜

[Ba****]

Also be kind to yourself, you are healing. Not a single soul is perfect. We are all big messes trying to muddle through this thing we call life.

[fr****]

I know it's hard but just think of the things that bring a smile to your face . And stick it out because it will get better .