Question for the men about your female FWB

[co****]

A fwb relationship for me, is just like we were regular friends. We talk about our day, we go see movies, get lunch and dinner, go to concerts without any real public displays of affection. Like my other friends dont know that we have a fwb relationship. They just think we are friends. But when we are alone behind closed doors we have our fun and it's nobody else's business

[co****]

And i have had fwb relationships last for years. I have one ongoing for 15 years now. The last 6 years we have lived 800 miles apart. But still occasionally visit eachother

[Playpal]

The facts are adult no restrictions play if she has to cancel you wait for the next opportunity  no texts calls or headjams leave a message to call next time she's free 

 You step over the line there probably won't be a next time 

[Deleted Member]

3 hours ago, coffeewithsugar said:

Nice try but so wrong!

if it looks like a fish, and smells like a fish, it's definitely not a dog 😂

[le****]

Me honestly I can do friends with benefits for very long I would grab feelings definitely That's just me though damn feelings

[Deleted Member]

23 hours ago, RoosterTheCowboy said:

you were the runner up bro. she didn't want a relationship.

whatever you say father time.

[Deleted Member]

19 hours ago, coffeewithsugar said:

Nice try but so wrong!

delusional

[Deleted Member]

I don't bang my friends. conflict of interest. the level of delusional men here is insane

[Th****]

Hi, I'm 34. I might be a little younger than some of the other people here. I've had several FWBs through the years. I see those relationships as mutual benefiting relationships. Sometimes, we all crave skin contact, and it's good to have someone there for those moments. I am a huge cuddle bug, and I have a healthy libido. Its been a godsend having friends who let me express those emotions.

Those relationships didn't have expiration dates and I still have contact with some of those friends. We may but have the sexual benefits anymore but the bins of friends is still there.

I've had FWBs last year's but usually we part when one or both of us find relationships. We were clear when we started that we weren't dating and if that ever needed to change it would have to be a discussion. But as I've said we feel like friends. That's timeless.

What makes it different? When you introduce exclusivity. When you monopolize each other's time with the sole purpose of exchanging emotional currency, it's evolved to something more. When you don't see yourself with anyone else you're not FWBs anymore. You found something else.

[Deleted Member]

5 hours ago, ThatxDemon said:

Hi, I'm 34. I might be a little younger than some of the other people here. I've had several FWBs through the years. I see those relationships as mutual benefiting relationships. Sometimes, we all crave skin contact, and it's good to have someone there for those moments. I am a huge cuddle bug, and I have a healthy libido. Its been a godsend having friends who let me express those emotions.

Those relationships didn't have expiration dates and I still have contact with some of those friends. We may but have the sexual benefits anymore but the bins of friends is still there.

I've had FWBs last year's but usually we part when one or both of us find relationships. We were clear when we started that we weren't dating and if that ever needed to change it would have to be a discussion. But as I've said we feel like friends. That's timeless.

What makes it different? When you introduce exclusivity. When you monopolize each other's time with the sole purpose of exchanging emotional currency, it's evolved to something more. When you don't see yourself with anyone else you're not FWBs anymore. You found something else.

all these females wondering why they not wife material. uhhh pretty obvious. sad really.

[Co****]

Demon that’s your take from it and that’s ok. Relationships are hard when you have constant let down. For me personally I get used and then abandoned. Over and over again. Does that mean because I don’t want to risk my feelings and emotions I don’t get to have causal sex with a same person or people all the while be labeled as not wife material? No. I just haven’t found my ride or die, and until I do, I’ll ride whom I want to feel better and stay sane.

[de****]

As soon as the first dollar is spent

[Deleted Member]

12 hours ago, CollarMeTina said:

Demon that’s your take from it and that’s ok. Relationships are hard when you have constant let down. For me personally I get used and then abandoned. Over and over again. Does that mean because I don’t want to risk my feelings and emotions I don’t get to have causal sex with a same person or people all the while be labeled as not wife material? No. I just haven’t found my ride or die, and until I do, I’ll ride whom I want to feel better and stay sane.

LMAO so by turning yourself into a sex object definitely is really proving a point of what kind of woman you are. wife material isn't on a sex fetish app. yeah that's definitely who I dont want as the mother of my ***. you cry wolf!

[Deleted Member]

12 hours ago, CollarMeTina said:

Demon that’s your take from it and that’s ok. Relationships are hard when you have constant let down. For me personally I get used and then abandoned. Over and over again. Does that mean because I don’t want to risk my feelings and emotions I don’t get to have causal sex with a same person or people all the while be labeled as not wife material? No. I just haven’t found my ride or die, and until I do, I’ll ride whom I want to feel better and stay sane.

you lack accountability and your comment States perfectly why good men aren't interested in you.

[Co****]

So much proof in your comments that shows how much of a trolling chauvinistic POS you really are. So tell me, if women in the life style is immoral and non-wifey material to you, why are you here and on said app? To get your dick wet behind your wife’s back? Don’t label yourself as a “good man”. LMFAO!

[Th****]

Wednesday at 09:28 PM, RoosterTheCowboy said:

all these females wondering why they not wife material. uhhh pretty obvious. sad really.

You ok buddy? That sounds like you wanna be single to me. Don't muddy the water while everyone else is fishing.

[bi****]

Collarmetina. How do u really feel lol

[bi****]

But yea don't label yourself a good man for sure if your going behind your spouses back. Frfr

[Deleted Member]

6 hours ago, bigderb said:

But yea don't label yourself a good man for sure if your going behind your spouses back. Frfr

exactly. it's incredibly disrespectful.

[Deleted Member]

The first girl I kissed in 8th grade was pegging me last month, we’ve never been an item but have always been friends that go through periods of sexual intimacy, through college, war, marriages, ***, careers somehow we are still friends and are perfectly comfortable being open sexually when ever it feels right.

[Deleted Member]

It’s been 30 plus years

[Ma****]

I was raised with the idea that a lover could be anyone whom you feel comfortable enough with to get busy but whom you never put any expectations on. They are those people you respect and cherish the times you find. With a busy world that we live in a good lover can be hard to find and it maybe months or years apart but it might only take a call saying hey im in town are you free ? And you catch up, have some fun. I usually like to offer any counsel to the numerous dramas women endure by the hands of men. But ultimately it shouldnt be about rules so much as a trust respect and acknowledgment of each others independence and the chemistry you still share in bed.

[Am****]

Update, I have since explained that I had too many feelings for him and that's why I had to end it. I thanked him for not making me feel cheap. He said that I was anything but. And cheap didn't make him go weak at the knees and other places like I did. Fast forward to today and he messages often, the conversation always turns naughty and he's desperate to see me. I put him off, I don't know if I can do it again.

[in****]

I think the once you get the feels for your fwb beyond friendship. It's hard to go back to being friends with you catch feels for someone.

[ma****]

I'm wired for monogamy and emotional bonds are intimate. I doubt I can separate it. "All - or - nothing", or "one woman man "