Question for the men about your female FWB

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October 31, AmyM333 said:

Update, I have since explained that I had too many feelings for him and that's why I had to end it. I thanked him for not making me feel cheap. He said that I was anything but. And cheap didn't make him go weak at the knees and other places like I did. Fast forward to today and he messages often, the conversation always turns naughty and he's desperate to see me. I put him off, I don't know if I can do it again.

It's good of you to be smart about your feelings and protect your heart. I would also encourage that that remember your instincts regarding his true feelings for you. Men want what we cant have as much as women and your withdrawal has probably encouraged his competitive instincts but its not emotion. Don't let him confuse desire for love especially if that love has grown in your absence. Love can only grow with someone not without them.