Dating..?

[Cu****]

Does anyone ever go on dates anymore?? It seems like after I start talking to someone and start to like them, they ghost me before I can even mention a freakin date..! 😭😭

[Coyote1964]

I ask myself the same question. I can’t remember when’s the last time I’ve been on an actual date.

[Ke****]

I still like to go on dates so I can get to know the person better

[Ba****]

I think thats the new normal

[showmeurtds]

Yeah seems like this has become the new norm nowadays. I do not understand it

[wa****]

Sure but I think because this is a Fetish app most are thinking of one thing but make it known up front that’s what you want

[ch****]

As a single guy of 5 years with a kid of my own, every girl I match on here I asked for a date and I get ghosted, not even one day into chatting, every date said I go to I offer a date cuz I don't want to text or at least start a phone conversation and all they want is my ***am my WhatsApp or my Snapchat, just to be ghosted.

[si****]

It’s the same here in SW Florida

[Mi****]

Some people are afraid to take the risk and you can't blame them. It just means they're willing to let you know they're not ready to commit to something like that. It's a common, fucked up way of doing it, but it's a bullet dodged in my opinion. You'll find people who are like-minded. 😋

[Sa****]

I would have loved to go on a 'date' to get to know the person I had just met (on another app) better, but she didn't want to be seen in public with me (even discreetly).
We had started to talk well and were beginning to like each other. But she was adamant about it, and it was impossible to change her mind... 🚩

[Will57Y]

That's a very good question ... and one I probably don't have the answer to since I haven't been on a date in years - perhaps forever since my only partners were friends first, so we didn't need dates to learn about each other.

But I'd guess that having phones 24/7 that can connect with anyone and anything means a lot less in-person meetings.

Perhaps someone with experience with munches or similar can provide some insight and I think I've seen related topics here recently.

[mm****]

Yeah I know right so i guess I should feel to bad that I’m not the only one so sad and crazy

[Te****]

Yep it happens. Most of my online connections seem to fizzle out the same way. I have met two amazing submissives on this platform so given that I'm male and in my 60s im not so great a catch, im doing ok. Hang in there you're gorgeous and so deserving of someone special.

[sc****]

I know exactly how u feel it’s happened to me several times

[Ma****]

Ok, well out it this way, if we ever do, the girl ghosts us anyway, so what’s the point?

[Th****]

It's not you. It's them. They probably have lo self esteem also. Don't stress on it

[Deleted Member]

Would love to talk with you

[Deleted Member]

Yes! Yes we do in fact. It's hard to get dates from apps but it happens. So sorry you're being ghosted, that sucks, people should do better. What kind of dates do you prefer? More of a Dress Up and Get Fancy, or, more of a Let's do something fun and exciting?

[we****]

It happens a lot i have found it more on this site. More also aren't true in first place or not from area.

[Ma****]

Yes, that happens all the time. 🤬 I think they’re all fakers or something

[ma****]

Apparently no one is interested in good old fashioned dating anymore which is sad, so much of the dynamic can be incorporated into a date night. For example When’s the last time your dom told you to give them your panties during dinner for safe keeping and you had to take them off and feel the fresh air the rest of the night?

[Deleted Member]

I think a number of people are insecure and get cold feet, or just want validation theyre attractive. Another reasons that they feel like its just not the right fit and end it. While super rare, I go on dates, so it happens. Good luck!

[Re****]

I just want a guy to plan a real date not a let's get drinks and fuck ..
NO THANK YOU ... this pussy is a Old fation wine and dine ..
Go home jerk it out dreaming of how sweet the next date will be when your dessert is actually dripping for you ...

[LB****]

Seems everyone just wants instant gratification

[ic****]

I think this app is like 90% bots, at least the women.