Kr**** Posted September 7 I hooked up with a good friend/lover of mine recently and I got way too excited a little too fast… that plus being pretty backed up from weeks of abstinence created a huge issue… I felt embarrassed and had to explain myself to her. She said she loved it! I had to go multiple times after that to make up for my shortcomings 💦💦 no pun intended lol Was she telling me the truth or just saying what I wanted to hear?
bo**** Posted September 8 😂 did you finish her and blow another one a bit later or just fucking completely punk out in your own selfishness. If you completely punked out you will never get that opportunity again.
ey**** Posted September 8 Reasonably speaking - she was saving your feelings when you came too fast It's not a compliment Most folk are kinda reasonable also in the sense that.... it happens. And so it's understandable she wouldn't want you to feel bad about something which can happen. Especially if it's something you can consider to make sure she also gets to cum.
no**** Posted September 8 Im ok with him cumming to fast but he better do something to get me off as well. Tongue, toys, fingers, etc
Submissive_summer Posted September 8 Honestly speaking... if its an intentional act that I wanted someone to 💦 quickly and they did... then yeah great ego boost... but if not.. and i find it happens often.. then it's disappointing
li**** Posted September 8 Only if he usually has more self-control than that and he coming too fast is a result of me looking particularly sexy or being particularly skilled in bed that day.
pi**** Posted September 8 that's a huge kink of mine tbh.. the fact you could go a couple more after the first one is a bonus. if she says she loves it, believe her 🤷 just make sure she's taken care of too (:
To**** Posted September 8 One’s body cannot be same every time. As its all good as long as you are able to distinguish whether she was satisfied.
Deleted Member Posted September 8 As long as they are doing forplay and not just sticking it in and flopping over when they are done.
Yi**** Posted September 8 She might love jizz, the sooner the better. But you better have some hand and voice skills, or chocolate ice cream. You could make a milkshake. I bet she would gulp that down too.
bi**** Posted September 9 Most guys dont last longer than a few minutes penetrative sex. Thats why you gotta do foreplay
se**** Posted September 9 So here is the thing I have noticed…early on I was a 5 minute guy and then I got married and during the 22 years of marriage we were always finished within 5 a 10 minutes because she could only cum once due to being to sensitive after her orgasm, but since my divorce over the past 3 years I have this thing about needing to fuck for at least 30-45 min…lots of different positions and making sure my partner has multiple orgasms before I get mine….if I had a woman tell me to cum in the first few minutes I would just have to tell her hold on baby we going for a ride.
Co**** Posted September 9 She was telling you the truth and was understanding of the situation. Show her more. And the fact that you had more same day is even better and hotter I am sure she loved and appreciated. Don’t worry.
Si**** Posted September 10 I've said that many times. It's a nice, nice compliment to a woman when that happens the first couple times. And if you make up for it the same day?? Even better!!
fr**** Posted September 13 Compliment if you make up for it which you did. Asshole move if you nut and run
Deleted Member Posted September 13 If you don’t believe her, then why talk to her at all? I think you should trust what she said. All the men said she’s lying and the women answered that they’d be honest, if they said it, that means they liked it. And like the other ladies said, I don’t care as long as we get to keep playing. If you’re a one and done kind of guy, it might be kind of disappointing though.
JackJonesHull Posted November 24 I have had this question nagging at me for a couple of decades or so. Not that I'm likely to just wander off satiated if it happens, no matter what I have priorities and they're not me. But when it does happen I am quite embarrassed and make it clear I'm here for the long haul, as it were.
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