Popular Post DirtyDaddyx Posted September 14 Popular Post Hi newbies! 1. If you’ve not been on this site before and 2. You’re a non-paying standard member …here are a few hints and tips to help you understand why you need to keep visiting for at least 3 or 4 weeks before you decide if it’s for you ! 1. As a standard member there’s quite a lot you can do on here - unlike other sites which are more limited. - narrow your searches to certain ages and areas - you get a limited number of likes - you can get to see the most recent 2 or maybe 3 profile visitors (so if you check in regular this helps!) - you can join in chats - you can read and reply to messages sent to you from other members BUT your limitations mean you can’t initiate chats and only paying members can contact you in the first 3 or so weeks … after that time, if you stick it out , non standard members should be able to message you also which really opens up your options !! So it’s definitely worth using the site for a month to see if it’s for you. Plus - added bonus - collect 30 points every day by adding pics, liking ❤️ pics (each pic like is 5 points so you just need to like 6 pics a day to rack up 30 points - easy!!). It takes a while but when you have1500 points you can cash them in for 2 weeks as a full member - and that is definitely worth it 🌟!! Points 🪙 🪙 🪙 rack up a lot quicker if you join in the treasure hunts ! These games help you to navigate and get to know the site plus the points are extra on top of your daily 30 - so get you that membership more quickly ! So - don’t be a 1 - day wonder on the site - stick it out for at least a month , collect the points , play the treasure hunts and … it’s a lot more fun 🤩 !! Definitely worth it !! DirtyDaddyx
Goodbicpl Posted September 14 We’re paid members and the site is full of bugs, not maintained properly and going downhill. When support is contacted it’s hit and miss whether they reply at all let alone within 72 hours. And the rare times they do get back in touch they ask members too much instead of just sorting the bugs. Maybe a better way of getting members would be to fix all the bugs with the site and the team get back to people in a timely manner?
Deleted Member Posted September 14 They also let creeps and predators stay on here, which makes it very not worth it. I've had multiple users message and literally in the first message describe how they'd SA me and nothing was done about it. I deleted my first account over it. Then I saw an ad promoting how they're so female friendly(basically begging women to join) talking about female greeters and how you can choose who messages you. Guess what? Another member messaged explicitly describing how they'd *** me. I reported it. The member is STILL on this app. If they want people(especially women/fem identifying) to join and stay, perhaps they shouldn't let it be a playground for predators. I'm basically only on here to report creeps in my inbox now. If they want to let the users suffer through that nonsense, they should get to have to read it too. 😀
Goodbicpl Posted September 14 7 minutes ago, KittenCurses said: They also let creeps and predators stay on here, which makes it very not worth it. I've had multiple users message and literally in the first message describe how they'd SA me and nothing was done about it. I deleted my first account over it. Then I saw an ad promoting how they're so female friendly(basically begging women to join) talking about female greeters and how you can choose who messages you. Guess what? Another member messaged explicitly describing how they'd *** me. I reported it. The member is STILL on this app. If they want people(especially women/fem identifying) to join and stay, perhaps they shouldn't let it be a playground for predators. I'm basically only on here to report creeps in my inbox now. If they want to let the users suffer through that nonsense, they should get to have to read it too. 😀 Agreed, we get the creeps too. Especially the lazy ones who think what people are looking for on their profiles is something to be ignored and bypassed. Usually it’s the look I’m good looking/have a big cock (invariably fake) crowd that are up there own arse and get uppity when they’re knocked back.
kizen Posted September 14 I have a question about paid membership. How the hell do you even subscribe anyways? I've tried on the website and app and it will not take my *** at all
Sw**** Posted September 14 Are they paying you for this plug? lol this, like all other dating apps, is garbage. Just more creeps due to it being kink/fetish oriented. Cause apparently if you’re into kink/bdsm, manners no longer exist 🙄
Do**** Posted September 14 The forums are great to read about fetishes and find things out. If you’re in the app and can only see Kink Academy (the forum with post approval) then log into the website to open up all the forums on the app, and you can click to say you want the app to access not safe for work content too. Then you see a lot more in the newsfeed and the forums.
Do**** Posted September 14 No one in here is allowed to ask for *** or financial contributions. So if anyone does, report their profile straight away. Don’t pay them.
Do**** Posted September 14 52 minutes ago, KittenCurses said: They also let creeps and predators stay on here, which makes it very not worth it. I've had multiple users message and literally in the first message describe how they'd SA me and nothing was done about it. I deleted my first account over it. Then I saw an ad promoting how they're so female friendly(basically begging women to join) talking about female greeters and how you can choose who messages you. Guess what? Another member messaged explicitly describing how they'd *** me. I reported it. The member is STILL on this app. If they want people(especially women/fem identifying) to join and stay, perhaps they shouldn't let it be a playground for predators. I'm basically only on here to report creeps in my inbox now. If they want to let the users suffer through that nonsense, they should get to have to read it too. 😀 Completely agree with reporting them all. And attach screenshots of what they’ve said. If they’re threatening you or being abusive, they need reporting. Also duplicate profiles, scams and anyone asking for ***. They’re on every dating site so the only way to get rid of them is keep reporting them.
Sw**** Posted September 14 5 minutes ago, DommeDelight said: The forums are great to read about fetishes and find things out. If you’re in the app and can only see Kink Academy (the forum with post approval) then log into the website to open up all the forums on the app, and you can click to say you want the app to access not safe for work content too. Then you see a lot more in the newsfeed and the forums. In my experience the website does not work at all, it’s like a dead page that goes nowhere
4R**** Posted September 14 Whilst admittedly there are lots of creeps on here, there are lots of genuine people who are looking to make connections and explore the kinkiverse. The forums are definitely the best place to frequent on here. A great place to interact with others and get conversations started.
Do**** Posted September 14 5 minutes ago, SweetNSourPatchBrat said: In my experience the website does not work at all, it’s like a dead page that goes nowhere Once you’ve logged in once you will be able to see more in the app, and if you untick the ASFW option in the settings on the website, even more is available in the app. Then you can go back to the app.
Sw**** Posted September 14 3 minutes ago, DommeDelight said: Once you’ve logged in once you will be able to see more in the app, and if you untick the ASFW option in the settings on the website, even more is available in the app. Then you can go back to the app. I did log in, all that it displayed no matter what I clicked on was that spicy pics are now viewable on the app, the website is just as poorly developed as that app
Re**** Posted September 14 Iv been here about 4 months, paid for a month after period of standard membership. I did not renew do to lack of active members in my area. Either talk for a period then ghost me, no response back, turn out to solicit content, a few have been banned or need to verify. So yeah, seems very few if any legitimate people are in my area.
Do**** Posted September 14 2 minutes ago, goldenretrievergf said: What do the spanks do? Makes them pop up on your “crushes” list
Deleted Member Posted September 14 Just now, DommeDelight said: Makes them pop up on your “crushes” list Do they get notified?
Re**** Posted September 14 1 minute ago, goldenretrievergf said: Do they get notified? Yes, check your crush list
Re**** Posted September 14 1 minute ago, RedLion64 said: Yes, check your crush list Unfortunately I cant see spank you. 😥
DirtyDaddyx Posted September 14 Author 1 hour ago, SweetNSourPatchBrat said: Are they paying you for this plug? lol this, like all other dating apps, is garbage. Just more creeps due to it being kink/fetish oriented. Cause apparently if you’re into kink/bdsm, manners no longer exist 🙄 Definitely not paid and no perks. Compared to other sites I’ve been on I do think this site is great for unpaid members - specially if you know how to work it! I agree with all the comments regarding fakes and creeps - no site can stop them but this site is once again better than most. For all the complainers - I’m not saying it’s perfect … but I also note you’re still on here …. 🤐.
Deleted Member Posted September 14 2 hours ago, DommeDelight said: Completely agree with reporting them all. And attach screenshots of what they’ve said. If they’re threatening you or being abusive, they need reporting. Also duplicate profiles, scams and anyone asking for ***. They’re on every dating site so the only way to get rid of them is keep reporting them. Except(at least the last time I personally tried) you can only report a profile once. So, basically, you report a threat, the report gets ignored, there's nothing more you can do aside from block and let them go on to threaten someone else.
ri**** Posted September 14 I'm a non-paying New Guy I've been on here for about 2 months and already met/ been involved with someone from here My biggest problem with the site is not being able to change my search parameters I keep getting matches farther and farther away from me Then there's the issue of kinks I'm open to most all but never see my favorite fetish in the searches Any recommendations for books or websites that can help me navigate this world 🌎 ??? Thanks Too All
Aequitas Posted September 14 Thanks for the heads up. It is a little overwhelming with the amount of information to put in your profile and figuring out how to navigate and use the options to thier fullest . But it certainly beats the other sites I've been on at least you talk to real people and not just bots and paid chatters. I was on one and I swear they must sequester every real person and put a chat team of bots on them to keep them isolated from other real members. 6 out of 6 pro chatters and one was even using a *** victim s picture for the mental hospital . So lol so far my experience with these site is a little jaded the first one I had 3 crypto scammers in a row. So definaky an improvement here even if there is a learning curve.
ey**** Posted September 15 to tie in a bit also even with or without any incentives - patience and time investment is always gonna work out better than expecting to meet someone in three days. That joining and immediately hitting daily message limits is a bad look to the people you're messaging as much as anything else. I think loving pics as a means of gaining points is a good move, but also risks 'lovebombing' so love because you love, not because you want points - it used to be possible to rack up points doing photo approvals, but understandably that has been revoked for assorted reasons. Forum posts and comments is also a good way to rack up points - but - there is a big difference to taking time to actively contribute and help others or share things relevant to the topics, and what some folk appear to do which is borderline spam. (or actual spam)
Su**** Posted September 15 Thanks for heads up! I’m non paying stm mainly due to certain things I can’t throw myself in…..is it worth paying after some time to get extra benefits. Like smith commenter my matches are mostly overseas. Does paying assist? Or is it give it a go and find out? I genuinely can’t justify till over this ‘hump’ lol any advice appreciated! TIA 😊
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