Do**** Posted October 1 It’s probably a known thing that there are far more male subs than female Dommes, so I have my message settings restricted to reduce the numbers of subs that can contact me. That works great for me. . However I would love to be able to support any females who may want to try being a Domme, or know what it’s like, chat about it, maybe even tentatively try it. I’ve tried requesting a chat room for female Dommes to chat and support each other. I believe it’s in the request queue. . I would love to be able to allow any females to contact me to chat. But I need a second set of message settings to allow females to contact me, whilst maintaining the restrictions for men. . Could we have a second set of message settings?
UK**** Posted October 1 I think that's a good idea. To broaden it out; I would have a different criteria if another member is looking for friends as well. As an example, someone may have an age crieria for a sexual partner (as well as sex) but they may welcome friends from outside that age range or sexuality.
Ra**** Posted October 1 Hello @DommeDelight!!!! 👋 🥰💖 I would love to support one another and also support this chat room!
ProTa24u Posted October 1 .. just to have the message and screening filters to WORK in the 1st place would be a huge improvement. Yet I digress, yes .. a second criteria or subsection. Perhaps even a thread that by default blocks all male entities by default.
sa**** Posted October 1 Looking for a dom in the US is there any way you can direct me or guide me. Last time I ended giving a couple thousand dollars just to be ripped off. New to this and new to the app any help would be be greatly appreciated
LadySusweca Posted October 2 1 hour ago, san-augustine9606 said: Looking for a dom in the US is there any way you can direct me or guide me. Last time I ended giving a couple thousand dollars just to be ripped off. New to this and new to the app any help would be be greatly appreciated If a domme is asking for *** right away that is your giant red flag. "Fin" iDommes are just scammers.
TheZenCommander Posted October 2 Love this idea! We need a community here. Maybe we can create a chat on ***am? I'd be willing to do the admin work on that. If it's of interest to others.
Deleted Member Posted October 2 Yo I need a coach. I'm sub by nature and my partner would love to see another side of me once in a while if there's a place to point me in the direction please point. Thanks 😊
TheZenCommander Posted October 2 @godexceeofkaos we get enough bs on this app from boys. Do we really need to police each other about word choices? Also, beware of that Greek sub. I blocked him for a reason. Anyway, solidarity is what we need here.
TheZenCommander Posted October 2 @10icscorpio I'm always happy to mentor. I have over 20 years experience. Feel free to reach out.
Do**** Posted October 2 Author 8 hours ago, san-augustine9606 said: Looking for a dom in the US is there any way you can direct me or guide me. Last time I ended giving a couple thousand dollars just to be ripped off. New to this and new to the app any help would be be greatly appreciated Report any and all *** you come across, as with fake profiles and scammers. Then they get booted off. Only way to get rid of them! . Try a kinky ad which will be seen by local people. Try looking in the local kinksters section and use the filters to show only Dommes. And try using filters in the newsfeed to show only Dommes that meet your location and age criteria and then go reading profiles.
Do**** Posted October 2 Author 6 hours ago, san-augustine9606 said: So where do I need to go to get information future understanding You’d be beat reading the FemDom section of the Forum to find out about it all.
Do**** Posted October 2 Author 6 hours ago, godexceeofkaos said: Is there a reason you are referring to women as females and men as men? Because some like being women and men. Some like being girls and boys. Some are lads or lasses. Some guys and gals. So I just picked male and female to mean all of them.
Do**** Posted October 2 Author 9 hours ago, RachelRed said: Hello @DommeDelight!!!! 👋 🥰💖 I would love to support one another and also support this chat room! You have fabulous filters in place so I couldn’t chat about this 😜 If anyone has any ideas how we can bring us all together then I’d love to hear them.
Sm**** Posted October 4 Thursday at 08:07 AM, DommeDelight said: You have fabulous filters in place so I couldn’t chat about this 😜 If anyone has any ideas how we can bring us all together then I’d love to hear them. It's not that, its that the message filters block EVERYONE, regardless. I bet out of 10 profiles I look at I can only message one or two, and usually those ones and twos are the scammer accounts that I reported two weeks ago that are still up, if they ever get taken down at all. The message filters are severely broken.
Do**** Posted October 4 Author 1 hour ago, SmokeyJ said: It's not that, its that the message filters block EVERYONE, regardless. I bet out of 10 profiles I look at I can only message one or two, and usually those ones and twos are the scammer accounts that I reported two weeks ago that are still up, if they ever get taken down at all. The message filters are severely broken. Most will likely be geographical or age filters blocking you. Your profile looks fine otherwise. Other blocks can be not having a photo, not being verified, not being single, not being the gender they’re looking for etc. It’s just people being specific about who they want contacting them. My filters work really well and I’ve never had a problem with people being incorrectly blocked or let through.
ey**** Posted October 4 I'm going to say with message filters. They are actually a GOOD thing in the sense. You go onto the profile and if message isn't there you KNOW they're not interested in you. This saves, well, it saves you reading profile it saves you getting into a convo and hitting a dead end and so on. Then if someone has it enabled, you have more time to read the profile to see if you are interested - if they'd be interested in you - if there's any 'scammer' red flags (or other flags) and it's easier for time.
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