update: not currently accepting applicants
I am currently entertaining submissions from well behaved cis-male subs that want to serve in a TPE way, or those seeking a good pick-up play beating. Yes I'm amazing with a strap on, but I have no interest in pegging. Do not bother to approach me if this is all you seek. I am sapiosexual, so you will need to win over my mind if you want my attention.
I am a former sub, former slave, former switch. I Domme from a place of deep understanding and compassion. Consent/Protocol/Rules will be established and enforced for TPE dynamics.
no scat, golden, blood
no ageplay
nothing immoral
Seeking connection in a rural area can be down right maddening. Curious to ask the subs in this thread.... how would you respond if you were required to video chat and meet in person before getting into lengthy texting conversations? 🤔
Munches are the best way to meet people, but not every city has these. Coming from Chicago to Asheville came with a lot of struggles in the BDSM community. I used to have munches, and dungeons, and community in Chicago, but in a small mountain town, not quite the same. All we have are apps Read more… like this. Even the fetlife groups in this area have gone silent.
Yes it's a fetish. I would say, a fetish is just an unconventional turn on. A kink is an unconventional need. And BDSM is an unconventional relationship with a well defined power dynamic.
I can assure you, it's just as frustrating on the Domme side. We also get ghosted. In fact, every sub that's ever ghosted me came back to apologize, tell me they were just 'so scared to finally have found what they always wanted' and they haven't found anything real like me, and can they just Read more… please come back... but the trust is broken already. There's no fixing that.
Seriously, on both ends, be a grown up, say the hard thing, face the confrontation, you might find exactly what you wanted on the other side of that.
You'd be surprised what can be accomplished after enough edging and denial. But yes it's possible, and milking is the term you are seeking.