Pegging | Kinks & Fetishes

Get into the pegging position

Plenty of people can enjoy the sensation of being anally penetrated, including those who don't tend to be sexually attracted to people with penises of their own. The act of anally penetrating someone using a strapon is called 'pegging', and it's a particular favourite of men, women, doms and subs alike. Make sure you choose a strap on dildo that's an appropriate size for your partner's preferences, and as always use plenty of lubricant. Make sure you give a good warmup, be cautious at first and stay in communication with your partner to make sure everyone's happy. Pegging can be an incredible experience for both parties, so don't be afraid to experiment.

What is pegging?

When a woman anally penetrates a man with a strap-on dildo. The term came into use widely when it won a contest in Dan Savage's Savage Love sex advice column after it was decided there wasn’t a term for this more talked about act.

How do you do pegging safely?

Make sure you have an anal safe strap-on for pegging, this means an item with a wide, flared base. As you don’t want any accidents with a toy being pulled up into the body, this can end with a trip to the hospital, and no one wants that. Also be sure to use lots and lots of lube to avoid any pain for the person being pegged. Add more at regular intervals as the anus isn’t self-lubricating. Be sure to start small and slowly, build up to taking larger strap-ons and be sure to use fingers and smaller insertables to warm the bottom up for taking a strap-on cock.

What do women think about pegging?

Many women love it for lots of different reasons such as being in control. Some enjoy the role reversal, being the one doing the penetrating for a change. It is a kinky fantasy that many women would like to make into a reality.

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