Safety and Respect

[M1****]

What do men do to address our rampant culture of domestic vi@lence? I keep seeing us complain about women on socials, without any regards to the reality of dv women live with daily, not even mentioning the silence of men on that evil online academy

I need my faith restored in us, how are men talking on these issues and protecting ourselves against ignoring and supporting rxpe culture

[Ir****]

Be the change you want to see in the world. And approach each encounter or relationship, no matter how fleeting, with the Campsite Rule.
“Leave it better than you found it”

[th****]

Never ***d a woman in my life. Been cheated on by 6. Men *** physically. Women *** psychologically. One is visible and punishable, the other isn't visible nor punishable. Men who *** women are cowards who do it when no one is looking. Not much good men can do about it when we're busy getting mentally ***d by our own women.

[Ir****]

2 minutes ago, this_mfr said:

Never ***d a woman in my life. Been cheated on by 6. Men *** physically. Women *** psychologically. One is visible and punishable, the other isn't visible nor punishable. Men who *** women are cowards who do it when no one is looking. Not much good men can do about it when we're busy getting mentally ***d by our own women.

So how do we fix this? I think that’s the dialogue OP was trying to get to. Neither is good for us.

[th****]

I look at it statistically. Every species has a percentage of failures. Most abusive men are psychologically disabled (psychopath, sociopath, narcissist, etc.). These can't be cured. They are genetic failures. I believe the fix isn't in stopping these men before they *** (because we can't). I believe the fix is in teaching women at a young age how to be more selective and choose better partners. That's what I had to learn about myself and why I kept picking cheaters. Which means we need to be better father's to teach them how to love themselves better, and have higher standards. Abusive men tell on themselves pretty early on in a relationship. Untrained women just ignore it or make excuses.

[Su****]

15 minutes ago, this_mfr said:

I look at it statistically. Every species has a percentage of failures. Most abusive men are psychologically disabled (psychopath, sociopath, narcissist, etc.). These can't be cured. They are genetic failures. I believe the fix isn't in stopping these men before they *** (because we can't). I believe the fix is in teaching women at a young age how to be more selective and choose better partners. That's what I had to learn about myself and why I kept picking cheaters. Which means we need to be better father's to teach them how to love themselves better, and have higher standards. Abusive men tell on themselves pretty early on in a relationship. Untrained women just ignore it or make excuses.

As a DV survivor I agree. Teach your daughter to choose better and escape early if red flags are seen. Help them know their worth.

[za****]

I would have to say, as a dv survivor, it needs to be taught across the board, not just to our daughters, but to our sons as well.

[Deleted Member]

Ur a beta

[Fo****]

As a DV and *** survivor who is also trans, there should be general education and clearly presented differences! Education of consent and proper communication should be very very important to anyone! There should be advocacy about safety, education about red flags and concerning behaviors. Also advocacy on how to safely seek help and build and find support!

[Ki****]

Raise our sons to be real men, proper Respectful men, real men don't hurt women,
The problem is that we have a generation that's grown up with little to no consequences in life and gone are the days of FAFO when i was younger and even now where i live you hurt a woman and you will find out real quick what happens.
Because of the little to no consequences we now we have this generation of males that call themselves men but are far from it.

[M1****]

26 minutes ago, anchoragechillguy said:

Ur a beta

If you are ok with rapists and ***ers attacking women - youre exposing yourself as a cancer. Stick with simping for lonely angry horny men, clearly youre more focused on submitting for male rapists and ***ers instead of

You are dismissed.

[jj****]

55 minutes ago, SubBella666 said:

As a DV survivor I agree. Teach your daughter to choose better and escape early if red flags are seen. Help them know their worth.

As a DV survivor who has been advocating for more mental health education, this line of argument is insanely wrong. Of course ***rs can be treated and they should be. Many ***rs were once victims themselves. Y’all need to actually look at the statistics if you want to argue based on statistics.

[jj****]

18 minutes ago, FoxPuppetPup said:

As a DV and *** survivor who is also trans, there should be general education and clearly presented differences! Education of consent and proper communication should be very very important to anyone! There should be advocacy about safety, education about red flags and concerning behaviors. Also advocacy on how to safely seek help and build and find support!

Thank you for restoring my already very thin faith in this community 😂
The simple reality is that a lot of people just don’t know how to handle emotions and they don’t know a lot about relationships. When i worked in law en***ment, there was *** targeting people who didn’t fit gender norms, *** because of very simple miscommunications, and *** because the people involved just didn’t know how to handle conflict. We make this problem sound more complex than it is when the core of it is that a lot of people just don’t know how to act and someone needs to actually teach them.

[Ki****]

I stick with my first comment raise our sons to be men.
But to play devils advocate - why is rate of male *** so high compared to women because women have the power to take everything you hold dear law always leans in the mothers favour even if she is not a good person or role model so there lies the problem too many kids growing up without both parents in the home kids need mum and dad to grow up to be good adults.
so I guess some people get violent and some end it as they will refuse to be violent