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I’m looking for:
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Description
White and nerdy, filthy dirty, sometimes flirty. Masochistic sapiosexual slave ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## , I have a few weird little foibles but I enjoy so many aspects of the lifestyle.
Clamps are a hard limit.
I'm fussy about who I submit to. If you can wait till I trust you, turn up to a munch and get a feel for who and what we could be then we might play. I'm not a 1 nighter or desperate to fuck.
Desires and Fantasies
Masochism.
Struggle/being overpowered mentally and physically.
Rope. Cuffs. Cage/confinement.
Needles. Staples. Cutting.
Canes. Crops. Floggers.
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"Can I keep you?"
Toys.
Body worship
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Erotic Photography (Active)
- Eye Fetish (Active)
- Ball Gag
- BDSM Collar (Passive)
- Begging (Passive)
- Biting Fetish (Passive)
- Bisexual
- Bondage Shackles
- Bondage Rope
- Bondage Tape
- Breast Fetish (Active)
- Breath Play (Passive)
- Chains (Passive)
- Collar & Leash (Passive)
- Discipline (Passive)
- Electro Sex Stimulation (Passive)
- Violet Wand
- Extreme Bondage (Passive)
- Restraints (Passive)
- Floggers (Passive)
- Gags (Passive)
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner (Passive)
- Handcuffs
- Rough Sex (Passive)
- Humiliation (Passive)
- Licking (Active)
- Masochism (Active)
- Needles
- Orgasm Control (Passive)
- Spanking Paddles (Passive)
- Ring Gag (Passive)
- Scratching (Passive)
- Sensory Deprivation (Passive)
- Slave Training (Passive)
- Spanking (Passive)
- Striptease (Active)
- Sweet Pain (Passive)
- Tattoo Fetish (Active)
- Subservience (Passive)
- Vibrators
- Wax Play (Passive)
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Safety with rope
Absolutely! ***r events are great places to learn the technical skill.
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White and nerdy, filthy dirty, sometimes flirty. Masochistic sapiosexual slave ***, I have a few weird little foibles but I enjoy so many aspects of the lifestyle.
Clamps are a hard limit.
I'm fussy about who I submit to. If you can wait till I trust you, turn up to a munch and get a feel for who Read more… and what we could be then we might play. I'm not a 1 nighter or desperate to fuck.
Clamps are a hard limit.
I'm fussy about who I submit to. If you can wait till I trust you, turn up to a munch and get a feel for who Read more… and what we could be then we might play. I'm not a 1 nighter or desperate to fuck.
Safety with rope
1. Know if your partner has medical issues, allergy to fibres, athesma, heart issues, fainting issues, phobias like spiders in case one shows up and freaks them out. This goes both ways!! Know if your Dom will panic over that damn spider and have your own shears nearby.
2. Shears!! You must always Read more…cut out if the safeword is called. If you won't cut your rope, don't use it. The safeword is instant and often avoided until the sub will have a breakdown if they aren't released.
3. Check body temperature of hands and feet if needed before and during play. Check colour of hands and feet. Check they can squeeze your hand back to signal wellness.
4. Know your safeword or use red yellow green.
Red- stop cut me out right the fuck now!!
Yellow-i might want out or just an adjustment.
Green- all good baby!
5. DO NOT TOUCH ANYONE WHO HAS NOT CONSENTED!! Even girl on girl. Even if 'they know me, I see them all the time '. NO! It is not ok.
6. Subs, do you space? What brings you back? Sugar and water are a must even if you think you've got it covered.
7. Doms, do you space? How? For how long. Sugar and water are essential again.
8. If in doubt cut the rope. Never ever second guess your gut but get them down safely.
9. Check in with your Dom or sub. Drop can occur after play. It's entirely individual and you may or may not experience it but you are in charge of checking the mental and physical health of your partner. Yes subs that includes you.
10. Subs. NEVER withhold a safeword. Trust your gut. It's not a failure to use it. You fail if you refuse to use it and damage yourself.
2. Shears!! You must always Read more…cut out if the safeword is called. If you won't cut your rope, don't use it. The safeword is instant and often avoided until the sub will have a breakdown if they aren't released.
3. Check body temperature of hands and feet if needed before and during play. Check colour of hands and feet. Check they can squeeze your hand back to signal wellness.
4. Know your safeword or use red yellow green.
Red- stop cut me out right the fuck now!!
Yellow-i might want out or just an adjustment.
Green- all good baby!
5. DO NOT TOUCH ANYONE WHO HAS NOT CONSENTED!! Even girl on girl. Even if 'they know me, I see them all the time '. NO! It is not ok.
6. Subs, do you space? What brings you back? Sugar and water are a must even if you think you've got it covered.
7. Doms, do you space? How? For how long. Sugar and water are essential again.
8. If in doubt cut the rope. Never ever second guess your gut but get them down safely.
9. Check in with your Dom or sub. Drop can occur after play. It's entirely individual and you may or may not experience it but you are in charge of checking the mental and physical health of your partner. Yes subs that includes you.
10. Subs. NEVER withhold a safeword. Trust your gut. It's not a failure to use it. You fail if you refuse to use it and damage yourself.
Midlands_Dom Does anyone know of rope training events in central England coming up? Does anyone know of rope training events in central England coming up?
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· 14.09.2017 10:43:24
Phedredelauney Absolutely! ***r events are great places to learn the technical skill. Absolutely! ***r events are great places to learn the technical skill.
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· 10.08.2017 19:02:30
MadameZ I would add: Start slowly unless you a) know very well what you are doing and b) know the other person very well. And if you're new to rigging, go to groups and events and get people to show you what to do_ tying is a tehcnical skill that (beyond the absoltue basics) needs to be learned. I would add: Start slowly unless you a) know very well what you are doing and b) know the other person very well. And if you're new to rigging, go to groups and events and get people to show you what to do_ tying is a tehcnical skill that (beyond the absoltue basics) needs to be learned.
LikePhedredelauney, Alucard-6172
· 10.08.2017 18:37:06
White and nerdy, filthy dirty, sometimes flirty. Masochistic sapiosexual slave ***, I have a few weird little foibles but I enjoy so many aspects of the lifestyle.
Clamps are a hard limit.
Clamps are a hard limit.
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