The difference between obedience and true surrender

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I'm a Switch, but only will submit in the bedroom. That being said I give over practically all control. Few limits and no safeword or gagged, restrained or controlled with a leash to the balls ECT. I give myself over, and when ever the Dom is done with me and I'm let free, I am no longer their sub.
I like it as it seems to make friendships and bonding faster and deeper lol. It's not just sexual, but only during sexual time.
Many say it's not really subbing and to each their own, but when I submit control, it's giving all control and the way I see it, that's as submissive as it gets.

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7 hours ago, Funtime812 said:

I'm a Switch, but only will submit in the bedroom. That being said I give over practically all control. Few limits and no safeword or gagged, restrained or controlled with a leash to the balls ECT. I give myself over, and when ever the Dom is done with me and I'm let free, I am no longer their sub.
I like it as it seems to make friendships and bonding faster and deeper lol. It's not just sexual, but only during sexual time.
Many say it's not really subbing and to each their own, but when I submit control, it's giving all control and the way I see it, that's as submissive as it gets.

That is subbing, there are different levels. Some are just into the bedroom scene. Others, like myself, like to give control 24/7. It doesn't make you less or more, just different than others.