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Just your Niche or well-rounded kink?


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Do you usually stick to your niche of kinks or do you frequently cycle the types of kinks and scenes you do?
I feel like in all of my irl relationships I take a more dominant role, I’ve never had the opportunity to explore my sub side
Definitely more well-rounded here.....
While we have our core favorites.... we tend to rotate through a wide range of kinks and scenes depending on Mood.... Energy and Time...
There are just too many interests and desires to squeeze into a single session and honestly... we wouldn’t want to....

Our play has really evolved over time.... New kinks emerge... old ones get revisited and the more we grow together.... the more our kinks adapt and deepen...... It keeps things exciting and makes each scene feel like part of a larger journey.... not just a one-off experience....
I'm not sure I would count as well-rounded; I'm confident and static in my roles and dynamic structure that I am capable of securing my happiness and sate in that realm. I think my "niche of kinks" is just very wide, and there is a lot to cycle through if open to it. So, it's a little of both, maybe.
Niche is always nice to fall back on but ….. taking time to explore the interests of others is the real ‘spice of life’ 😈
For the most part I'm niche. But within my kinks (electro & fire) there's a lot to explore. I'm actually teaching a class this weekend on how to be more creative with electro.
I like to step things up at a glacial pace. When I wrap my meat hooks around a girl’s throat I want to trust she’s not going to run off to the police with a clean set of prints in bruises. BDSM is all about trust and it’s a two way street.
Playing with someone new after discussing limits I have a set playlist for a mapping session to learn her, how to read her, tastings of at least a couple curious items. With someone more experienced it's more what I'm feeling like that night, possibly a request she may have, I'll ramp up intensity to push those edges.
I like to stick to my niche and what I like
Being polyam, I don't have to cycle the kinks, I just cycle the partners whenever I'm feeling into more one kink than the other
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