How To Spot A Scam

[Al****]

Anyone who tries to get you to leave this app and talk on ***am or Whatsapp

[Ge****]

2 hours ago, zuckernusse said:

Geralt-ish Love the name! Where the hell even is pretty prairie?? Lolz

Kansas ~ population 700 ... the highest concentration of 1' tall kinky submissives in America

[Na****]

Its pretty simple, if they look too good to be here, they probably are

The standard here is not the highest

[Co****]

Ah. A shame but thank you for telling me. I’d rather know.

[De****]

I report whenever necessary and recommend to anyone to do the same. I’ve worked security and dealt with bots, ai, scammers, and creepers. Those tips are solid to keep in mind while approached or out and about. One tip I recommend engaging and testing the chatter before reporting. Learn what you can about how they engage and ask questions so you know how to tell. Practice a habit of qualifying control in your engagement as you would any other interaction. If the red flags are obvious report them so they are flagged. It’s not always a solid system, but sometimes one report can make the difference to keeping the community safe.

[Freakyways026]

I agree its all cr*p here

[AmandaMonsterLady]

2 hours ago, notowned54 said:

Plus some of us looking for ltr are real.

Exactly. I am real too. I like kink. But, that doesn’t mean I am just going to hookup with every dude that says “hi”. I need a connection. If that is against someone else’s kink rules that is their problem. Kink doesn’t mean no morals.

[Lo****]

I just started and only have one picture lol there's reasons behind it but I agree with what is being said in the content. Well written!

[De****]

A lot of kinksters here are into long term and monogamous relationships. Being kinky doesn’t equal being casual.

[jw****]

These are great tips

[Ja****]

Any profile that likes me: scam 😂

[pe****]

Here’s the big one had one in New York and when went to talking she was in California I say three strikes and there out because send them *** to fly out to you story nope I will send my plane to see you there are there car broke down need *** to fix it are mom is sick and we need medicine it’s all on here if somebody wants to talk 300 miles away it’s a scam because who’s dating that far away

[In****]

I'm a middle-aged blue-collar man. Whether it's this app or others, anytime I get notifications from a young, late ***s to early 20 somethings girl, I have immediate suspicions. I'm not saying there's no young women interested in older men but I'm not rich, don't try to put off as rich on dating aps and I don't have the body of the top 1 percent of men they're after. So there's a very high probability it's some Only Fans garbage, a full-on scam, or a potential robbery if it shows they're actually in the area and want to meet.

[Ra****]

if you have an AI app like google, you can just scan their pictures to see if they belong to someone else

[Ju****]

If you want to take your chat out of this platform, take them to ***am. ***am is free. And give them your ***am tag. If they come back and tell you that they can’t reach your tag. That’s a lie. The reason why they don’t want to do that is because if they are trying to text from Ghana Zaire anywhere in the world ***am will show you exactly where they’re texting you from. Not only will it tell you that they’re texting you from Ghana. But it will also tell you when the last change their name, and when they last changed their photo Why would somebody change their name?
This is a typical male changing a name to a female name expecting you to not recognize that And they will tell you, oh that’s because I was in Ghana and I lost my phone Really how many people go to Ghana for vacation

[se****]

I'm still gaging my comfort level on picture posting as I know people who also use this site......I know I know should be more accepting then but brain measles. That being said......yea on multi sites the most common is requests for WhatsApp (because you can also transfer *** on that app) and they usually try to say ohhhh I have bad reception and cant always access this app. Like 2 minutes ago we were having fluid conversation and why would a diff app affect your connection issues?

[Deleted Member]

Use a background check on their given phone number. The provider will give your their GPS location on 2 to3 feed exactly.

[Ad****]

Curious if tributes are considered scam. I’ve seen legit ask for them and some not. It’s a difficult one. But living elsewhere and saying you are around the corner is a big red flag!

[Deleted Member]

The best message I got: let us meet , but oh no my mom died today, I can't go now. I need *** for the funeral, when is your next payday... too bad. The person was not informed that there exist a national death register. After I told her I have sent my new paycheck direct to the funeral house the person reacted with " friendly and kind " words. Every second was fucking. I belive here is not a single real female answering or looking for fun.

[Deleted Member]

Interesting 😎

[De****]

2 hours ago, AmandaMonsterLady said:

Exactly. I am real too. I like kink. But, that doesn’t mean I am just going to hookup with every dude that says “hi”. I need a connection. If that is against someone else’s kink rules that is their problem. Kink doesn’t mean no morals.

Thank you! Saying that “remember this is a kink site” as a reason why people can’t be looking for long-term relationships or love here is so gross. People that think kink is only for casual hook ups to me are their own type of scam because they don’t really understand what kink is all about. You can absolutely have casual, but the deeper you get into scenes and dynamics the less possible that is. I’m definitely not letting a random person do edge play with me.

[bo****]

95% of the accounts on here are fake it’s insane

[lu****]

It's so bad all the fake profiles. I may only have one pic but I'm not a selfie person. Definitely watch for the WhatsApp, Zangi, ***am, etc crap. They are notorious for trying to get you over on to one of those platforms. I've been on the Internet since it first became available back in the days of dialup. I've seen the scams and spamming grow on here for over 30+ years. Just use common sense, think with the right head, keep the credit card in the wallet, and play safe.

Fyi. The biggest giveaway is sh*ty grammar. Things like:
1) Am single by name...
(Who speaks like that?)
2) Am looking for....
(Again with the "Am" at the start of the sentence.

Also take a close look at the pictures. Eg. Saying they live in Canada but all palm trees in every picture. Staged professional photos only. That says an expensive photoshoot and who has costly photos done for dating sites. They will tell you they were born in the US or Canada but not know much about the area they say they are from.

The point I'm trying to make is sometimes information given just doesn't add up or make common or logical sense.

[la****]

If they ask you for *** or if they want to talk to you on another website

[Do****]

Lots of numbers by the name and bio description has nothing to do with this site…and when they try to include ***am as best way to get a response.