Who chooses (couple additions) ?

[Bad_girls_pussy]

Who has the final say on any new ppl couples add to there fun time? Is it a mutual thing ? What if one really wants it and the other isn’t interested ? Do they play separately then?

[sm****]

Mutual unless agreed upon of playing separate

[di****]

Definitely mutual, but I’d love to be the first one you play with separately

[sm****]

Each dynamic is different but it would have to be mutual with me

[na****]

With us it is mutual. We don’t date separately we go on dates separately with the same woman but want someone that wants to date us both.

[Ti****]

Gotta be mutual. As a couple if one explicitly doesn’t want it, it doesn’t happen. Veto power. Playing separately is determined in the contract when you start talking about it. As a third i really have no say, its whatever the couple is cool with

[Ot****]

Your question can be interpreted a few different ways. Since you say “fun time” I assume that you mean for sexy times and not adding to a relationship/dynamic.

It’s really varied for me. I’ve been in dynamics where I have two subs who lived together and all of our play time was with the two of them. In another my sub liked to bring in their other partner for additional playtime and they often initiated that. Another one is a cuckquean and likes to watch me with other people, sometimes that people I select and bring home and other times it’s one of her friends that she initiates.

[Co****]

With us it's together if a relationship forms between the 3 of us then date/play can be solo but all equal

[di****]

Loven to play with you botj

[MidWest-FWB]

Communication is important. You should try chatting with someone and ask your partner how they feel about it, but also how you feel about it. If it's something you obviously want to experience, it will eventually happen. Better to be open with one another.
Luckily my partner and I play together and solo. In previous relationships, we did the same. But when we played solo, we told each other about it. Then we had some hot sex after! Lol. What is it exactly you're wanting to experience? If you don't mind me asking. You can also message me if you want a more private conversation.

[Ga****]

We are looking for a unicorn to join as an equal in a thrupple. We could then play separately or together so long as nobody gets sidelined.

[ko****]

It's all or nothing with us. If I'm interested or her is and the other isn't then it's not going to work. In theory...we have yet to add the third for play

[Sh****]

All has to be on the same page or it will probably be a issue.

[ni****]

Different dynamics for different people, we play separately and together. Ideally minimize jealousy and maximize fun experiences.

[Deleted Member]

For us, we both have to be into the woman, he is ok with me hooking up with her solo but I do enjoy the 3 of us being together the most. I would be ok with him hooking up solo but 99% of the time he wants us both.

[ey****]

mutual

if either person says no, it's a no. 

[Submissive_summer]

100% Mutual

[tu****]

Communication. Communication.communication. 50/50 if one is not interested 100% don't fucking do it. It becomes a stain in the relationship and willforever be something you made them do that they didn't want to do.

[Wi****]

For us we mainly stick to playing separately. But when we meet a spicy couple it’s usually talked about, if my wife doesn’t like my date then they usually don’t meet up.
Her hook ups are just hook ups I never really worry unless one turns out to be A douche bag.