Jump to content

Too attractive?


Recommended Posts

Im a little shy at approaching men that are well have finely chiseled gym bods physique or very handsome through feeling im way out of their league as slightly on the curvy side.
So I’ve heard of in too good of physical shape being intimidating to some women. But never too attractive, I’m here to see the answers lol
Yes...I actually slept with one yesterday that I was highly intimidated of even meeting. I was so nervous on the way there that I wanted to toss my cookies but I did it and am proud of myself. It has a lot to do with the level of self-esteem you have compared to how attractive you find the other person. It's interesting.
i would imagine so. Im a full submissive guy when most seem to be doms theres always a person thats experiencing what the other gender experiences daily
It also has to do with a person's past. For example, I was the kid asked out as a joke in school so if someone I feel is too attractive/out of my league is talking to me especially if they are showing interest in me romantically/sexually, I still worry it's another joke.
Depends on the woman's confidence level in my experience. I always say no to very attractive men should they approach me.

I turn hot guys down if they have a bad attitude and little respect towards woman

I just turn down a ridiculously hot man because he seemed like an entitled jerk. Some men think being very attracted means they can act however they want and that automatically makes them unattractive.
52 minutes ago, AmaltheaTheBrat said:
It also has to do with a person's past. For example, I was the kid asked out as a joke in school so if someone I feel is too attractive/out of my league is talking to me especially if they are showing interest in me romantically/sexually, I still worry it's another joke.

I had the same thing sorta … in high school I was incredibly shy so unbeknownst to me I became a bet to a group of hot guys to see who would get my V card. It kind of traumatized me because all their gfs ***d me and I knew I was a butt of a joke. Almost 30 years later and I still won’t talk or even look at a very attractive man.

All of the women I date tell me that I'm really attractive and they assumed I had a girlfriend already. The women that date me seem to assume that I'm some kind of player, but in reality I rarely approach women because I'm rarely successful or see a good opportunity 😅
I'm not beautiful I know I'm ok looking as I've matured but I carry myself differently, now I get approached more than I ever have if a guy looks good but looks like an asshole then he is your not missing out on anything haha
Yes I’m very shy anyway so approaching a really attractive woman would give me anxiety. The worst part is when I do get a reply it’s usually because I messaged a fake.
1 hour ago, cambridge20050 said:
I just turn down a ridiculously hot man because he seemed like an entitled jerk. Some men think being very attracted means they can act however they want and that automatically makes them unattractive.

Confidence is sexy. Arrogance is not! 😉

Nope I don’t back down. What’s the worst that can happen. He says no thank you or fuck off? Even then I know that I am not attractive to every human and that’s okay. You absolutely miss 100%of the shots you don’t take. Confidence is sexy, if I meet a man over 30 who is too shy to speak to an attractive human I would just feel sad for them. Like what happened to you…
Let me answer this yes and no. I used to work with a guy and woman would parade by his desk all day long single married didnt matter they all wanted to talk and see this man.
3 hours ago, DroolAid said:
Yes...I actually slept with one yesterday that I was highly intimidated of even meeting. I was so nervous on the way there that I wanted to toss my cookies but I did it and am proud of myself. It has a lot to do with the level of self-esteem you have compared to how attractive you find the other person. It's interesting.

I applaud this! I too have had those feelings meeting up with a hot alpha confident with tattoos . Fit with a great dick. I thought what does he want with me? I realize that those are my own insecurities ***king out. I’ll just say after an amazing sex session he told me that one of the sexiest things about me was my confidence and how I carried myself I wasn’t shy or trying to cover my belly, I just walked around that room naked and I owned it And then he owned me.

AmandaMonsterLady
Yes. I assume he is gay, married with a ton of kids, won’t like me anyways. I tend to talk myself out of a lot.
×
×
  • Create New...