Popular Post ja**** Posted October 18 Popular Post Does anybody else see how soft porn on social media is ruining young generations and degenerating society, and feel guilty for using an app like this? I mean porn and sex have been used as weapons of psychological warfare for a very long time now. Normalizing deprived sexual fantasies is a slippery slope, and who knows if the people putting apps like this in the spotlight really have the best intentions for society. We recently saw how the "sexual revolution" tried to normalize pedophila and create a sexual orientation for it. The sexual revolution has a very dark history if you look into it. It is demoralizing for a society to not have any sense of prudence at all. For some people no prudence or boundaries at all, ever is a kink, and they even talk about it on apps like this and try to normalize it. What would your ancestors think about this? How wrong would their opinion really be? I enjoy this app as much as the next guy, but it has the tendency to make me feel dirty inside. Its something I just can't shake, and I'd be ashamed of myself if I did.
Tu**** Posted October 18 All valid feelings you have there. If you feel an app is not for you, would you leave said app or continue to use? I think as humans we are able to make personal decisions and choices based on what or reactions inside make us feel. If it feels good it’s healthy. If it feels dirty then it’s not for you. Older generations were very much church related. Where today non religious people are the majority on these apps. So to ask yourself if it’s a good app for society, or if it’s a good app for you? Why stir the pot when everyone already enjoys what’s cooking. I’d say, just let people enjoy themselves and if you’re not down with the flow, you have the option to not use the app.
fl**** Posted October 18 Based on my observation I'm convinced these platforms prey on the lonely and those who understand they are socially different by promising connections which are sold to us. There is the flawed ranking system (telling me I'm 200 additional spots behind in my city week after week when realistically there's maybe 100 people on the platform with 20 miles of me). This app sells me an opportunity to boost in the listings by artificially cucking chances if the user doesn't pay These apps are exporting us for mere conversation. Other platforms have eliminated the dating aspect or capitalized on it with no exceptions left just facilitating organic connections. These apps are toxic...but they are all we've got. This dependency is destroying us. It's not an accurate representation of who we are. It's not fair to those who depend on body language to read people. It's extortion. Girls are changing their bodies to photograph for likes when the people who look best irl are ignored and think they are ugly. This is literally destroying the game for profit and we bow and pay for the hope of false promises and to pursue empty connections
de**** Posted October 18 I’m so over seeing that shit when I get on facebook and instagram like sex, and bring a standup guy used to mean something now it’s like it’s nothing. It’s crazy this is why I’m rarely online or talk to anyone. Because I’m looked at crazy when I stand behind my morals and values this is crazy
Ste501172 Posted October 18 We all live in an artificial sexual world of our own constructs and desires. We automatically hope and assume we are attractive, desirable and funny to one and all. Especially on here where intent, humour can be wrong, misconstructed or we simply block, because bored next. We haven't changed as humans, this app just offers a filter into our inner selves that can be honest, weaponized or decisive. As In most things you pick your tribe and hope for the best. That's leaving out a load more topics, race, gender, cultural differences, attitudes to sex and kink but it's like most things, it helps to chat to like-minded people as kink can be isolating and self destructive if it doesn't have an outlet or people who understand because as you say people still think it can be and is morally corrupting.
Coupleforplay Posted October 18 I don’t feel dirty using this app at all. Perhaps the problem with society is that it expects everyone to fit in a box, one partner, one missionary position, one purpose, reproduction. I’m glad times have changed where it’s more acceptable to be yourself. When I lived in Germany and nudity was far more acceptable than here in the UK it opened my eyes considerably. Men/women playing ball games naked on lake beaches, men/women swimming naked in pools or changing next to each other or in the sauna together. Nothing sexual about it, just natural. In fact it was us British people that sexualised it until we became so used to it. Sure protect kids from apps such as these and nudity on other apps, but don’t send us back to the Victorian age where acts such as found on here still went ahead but sealed behind the thickest of doors.
Ste501172 Posted October 18 You could argue people are most honest on here with who they really are and what they want kink wise, as according to many folks we're a right bunch of evil doers lol
Vidarius Posted October 18 It is not the softporn on social media that is ruining the young generations. it is the social media itself - in general.
Ro**** Posted October 18 Only a small amount of our ancestors were Christian. By far, most of our ancestors were primal and feral. Nothing wrong with connecting to them through primal sex.
Ki**** Posted October 18 Bruh post nut clarity hitting u too hard lmfao. Lots of people have f*cked up dark kinks in this day and age that’s how the internet works🤷♂️, go yap this think piece elsewhere fr.
OB**** Posted October 18 Personally, I think the key to all these concerns can be addressed with just two words. Consenting Adults. If you ensure that all parties are adults (as they should be to effectively provide consent) then one could use the words: Enthusiastic Consent. If all parties are adults and provide enthusiastic consent then there’s absolutely nothing to feel guilty about.
borblezorb Posted October 18 That's valid, people have been questioning the societal purpose of porn when it first came out like in the 1920's
Se**** Posted October 18 Porn and young people have always had an interest in sex. I think if you feel dirty inside then you should leave this and all sites related to sex or nudity. There is a very healthy community here that seeks to find their match that wants a real relationship that has more ways to express their passion for another. Too often the religious teachings, social norm of judgement, and parental criticism and guilt to make them feel dirty has left people with internal conflict and want to free themselves of these ill placed thoughts and feelings. . This is a place for many healthy people to find freedom from the ill placed thoughts and feelings. This site is simply here for healthy people to find their match and those like you who struggle we are on our own journeys to find freedom from other’s beliefs. Hope you find your pathway to move forward
Ti**** Posted October 18 I think this is a very closed minded way of looking at things. We are an*mals, and sex is something integral to survival as a species, is deeply ingrained in all of us. Knowledge is power. Teach the kids what sex is and how people will try to take advantage of others to get it, and why that’s wrong. Speaking of normalizing pedophilia we have one in the whitehouse who is actively protecting a whole lot more. Its as big a problem as ever, but the good thing is its out in the open. As far as promiscuous internet videos, sex sells. And again the answer is knowledge is power. Everyone should fully understand the reason it’s there and the potential consequences of letting that kind of content take your attention. Sex should never be a point of shame. We must embrace it and understand it in all of its forms to control it instead of letting it control us.
Co**** Posted October 18 If this is a god thing. Stop. But ok, the basic thing here and in most places is consent, both parties are *adults, *aware of what's involved, and *consenting to it. With the backup that if consent is revoked, then activities cease immediately. This is healthy sex, boundaries are heard and respected, indulgence doesn't hurt anyone (despite *** being a goal for many) no matter what form it takes, hell, many people do these consensual things without sex merely due to the pleasure it gives them. For people with the "kink" as you say it of no boundaries whatsoever and normalizing it are the same people who refuse to make laws regarding martial *** illegal because it isn't a thing, marriage is a god thing, God says women are basically property, so if I want to use my Fleshlight when I WANT regardless of their wishes, that's God's will. Those people are predators, in all walks of life, vanilla, chocolate, minty, fruity, they get away with it for many reasons, some of which you demonstrate here. They're the ones telling you it's wrong and who to be angry at so they line their pockets and have power, see the church paedophilia problem, rich and powerful people doing what they want, because they make the rules and interpret them. THAT is ***, taking away your chance to say... No. Taking away through it "being how it is" religion or laws.... And in their private spaces they're doing things you'd never do, with same sex, ***, ***s, by exploiting people who trust them.. it's abhorrent. But it's "normal" it's "just the way it is". The more people who learn to trust their own mind, to be able to create healthy boundaries, to have their needs met and find the right people is SO MUCH the opposite of a problem. What is a problem is we can't talk about it because of "those people". sex work is work, but while there are laws for say, freelance architects, the only laws regarding prostitution demonise it at best, make it harder and even more unsafe than it is because... "They're just whores, not people". CNC is a thing, that's consensual non consent, playing at *** but again, adults, aware, consenting, consent can be revoked anytime. Not having the willpower to stop when needed crosses the line into monster territory, here be monsters indeed. We recognize them, but can't call them out because "it may ruin their life" and so fucking what if it does, we call ***ers out all the time and it fucking ruins theirs. One rapist, even if they don't realize they're doing it, can hurt dozens of people over their lifetime and they literally may not realize it because we CANT TALK ABOUT IT, victims try to hide it so don't discuss that Greg is a rapist, be careful of him, and if they do, who believes the victim? And male victims? Queer, the elderly, ***, everyone has the potential to do it and everybody has the potential to just fucking not. But your sort of talk, the one that others "others" that makes it ok to hate people, and people DIE that way. Hate yourself because you shouldn't? ***, hate someone else because they shouldn't? Hate crime leading to *** "for a joke" people not being able to say "if like to fuck and love more than one person" "the spouse did it, it's always the spouse....." I'm sick of people just being told what to think. Be an adult, be aware of what's involved and consent with your thoughts too. Rant over.
Ro**** Posted October 18 1 uur geleden, RoodHapje said: Only a small amount of our ancestors were Christian. By far, most of our ancestors were primal and feral. Nothing wrong with connecting to them through primal sex. I connect to my ancestors through sex. It is highly spiritual to me. After all, I am because my ancestors had sex.
john-6542 Posted October 18 I think most people here missed the point he isn't asking about "consenting adults" he talking about the youth and or ***. It is personal offensive that my ***'s elementary library has books on transgender ideology and racial oppression but they can't take a Bible to school. If we are talking about open honest education either we should equally present all view points or none. Also would think most people would agree that most high school students aren't mature enough to to appropriately discuss and explore these topics but we have them in cartoon books for 1st graders.
FETMod-HG Posted October 18 Hi Kinksters! This can be seen as a controversial topic and we understand some may take offence at some of the content. We have let it pass as discussion of personal opinions is part of a free society. However we are keeping an eye to make sure this doesn't turn into a heated discussion. Thank you for understanding. 💜
Se**** Posted October 18 Appreciate that. In the end we all have to search in our upbringing the experiences we all experienced. He I believe is on that journey to find why he feels guilty and his remarks here should be respected and not attacked.
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