Vetting People

[sh****]

Not at all do it to it

[Ma****]

Unusual, yes - weird, no. I'd be impressed by the awareness shown by that request. When the photos in a profile come from an OF account, or similar - they can't do on-demand.

[Yo****]

You can also ask for a facetime. That way it's something you both have to do.

Sometimes I ask suspicious people about the city I live in by making a bizarre statement which anyone living here would know isn't true, and asking for their thoughts.

After a while though you just know who is a bot - albeit not too common on here.

[Mu****]

The first two people I’ve had conversations with on here ended up not being the person they said they were. Kind of disconcerting.

[John1187]

Not at all

[Ch****]

Not unusual nor weird request to ask yo to photo verify who they say they are especially since you had taken the initiative to act first.

[Da****]

I ask for a pic with face and which has them having written something, like my username. Or when the convo upgrades, a voice note. Video call.

It's a must for sanity, protection, etc.

The excuses that come up. Bizarre.

[bi****]

I do literally the exact same thing, lol

[Submissive_summer]

Valid and normal in my books... always vet

[Bl****]

Tuesday at 07:19 PM, FETMod-HG said:

Please always report any fake profiles you see.  The reports go to the Support Centre, who can *** verify or evict profiles. Unfortunately any online community will have fakes and scammers, so a zero tolerance approach is the only way to remove them. Whackamole!

Even when fake profiles get reported you don’t take them down, I know for a fact that one I reported 6 months ago is still up and running.

[FE****]

1 hour ago, BlackFish5115 said:

Even when fake profiles get reported you don’t take them down, I know for a fact that one I reported 6 months ago is still up and running.

It's important to also remember that the site needs to find evidence, otherwise the word of one person, who MAY be acting because they are scorned could take down an innocent person.  This is also why it's important for all of us to report if we find what we believe are fakes.  One random report is not enough.

[Da****]

I think reporting profiles or not and what hapoens to them after is a separate issue to the original issue.

Let's not get side-tracked.

Get used to spotting fake profiles, Get used to asking general questions/making conversation, block anyone who wants to communicate off the app too soon.

The hardest one for me is when i read a sub's profile and sense they're nervous (i think women have a lot more stuff to deal with than men on here) and want to allow her space to 'come out', but also have my checking mechanisms. I'll always err on the side of being softer for longer.

For women, especially, i reconmend to check the wall of a profile: the section below the minimum info panel. See what else the person has done, engaged in, read their comments, get alignment in that way.

And men (esoecially) , put time and effort in, make your profiles fuller, engage in convos, share of yourself in that way. And work on knowing who you are, and what you have to offer.

Good luck all.

[ChrisVet]

I think I’ve ran into more bots than anything it has honestly been crappy

[Bl****]

4 hours ago, FETMod-RG said:

It's important to also remember that the site needs to find evidence, otherwise the word of one person, who MAY be acting because they are scorned could take down an innocent person.  This is also why it's important for all of us to report if we find what we believe are fakes.  One random report is not enough.

The problem is that the picture they are using is of someone who I know personally and that was also stated in the report

[Deleted Member]

Hold up so many fingers

[FE****]

3 hours ago, BlackFish5115 said:

The problem is that the picture they are using is of someone who I know personally and that was also stated in the report

Then that person should also be reporting it.

[sl****]

I don't need to ask i can just tell. When they ask me where I'm located and its listed on my profile then I know there inlyfans person that just wants you to spend *** to watch them do things. I sorry but porn is free and I can see many different girls. Basically if there not willing to meet then there a fake. They will say can you send me *** for gas and just keeps asking for ***. So I'm super picky with how I talk with now days. But I have asked some to send a Pic holding a sign with the date and time and they always say I do t have paper or I don't have a pen. Everyone got paper and pens in there house

[To****]

Bro not to step on your hands while you're holding on I'm proving a point to someone have you yet to have a meet yet

 

Mod edit: which "Bro" are you talking to.?  You'll have a much better response if you identify who you are talking to,

Edited October 24 by FETMod-RG
added clarity

[ba****]

Not at all

[Sa****]

Not weird at all.

[ju****]

Because they’re fake

[ha****]

Nope

[B_****]

if theyre asking for pics, they best be willing to respond in kind

[pa****]

I’ve had some sketchy experiences on her already it’s definately a thing.

[Do****]

Everyone has been fake so far this is bs
Any girls that are real message me because I’m about to get off this page. Do you know any better sites that are real