Is it wrong to view friend's content?

[Do****]

I personally think *** or otherwise, if she didn't really want you to know or have seen certain things she wouldn't have volunteered the information. For some reason a lot of people are more willing to "let their freak flag fly" or less inhibited than when stone cold sober because they *** embarrassment less. But alas consent is consent and the inability to give or believe you have received clear consent while *** is a slippery slope and one I try to avoid at all costs. Would you feel guilty if you happened to find the link to her OF by chance and subbed anonymously?

[ma****]

So my question is are you paying for the content or are you getting it free if your paying for it your helping her grow financially if your getting it for free your using it as a guilty pleasure and I agree if she was *** and more relaxed in my experience thats when your more free so she may have been showing you 1. Because you was inquiring about it and she is thinking only on the business aspect to help you out or 2. She was relaxed enough to open up a door for you that normally she wouldnt so if you have any attractions to her I would suggest opening up to her maybe even have her over and help you get started with content see where things go or maybe after a couple times of shooting slowly bring up the subject of you and her let nature take its course but remember it may back fire and she gets embarrassed and clams up for a while but either way be a friend more than anything

[Sh****]

I dont see anything wrong with it. You were probably going to find it eventually.

[Do****]

I believe she is returning to the promotional twitter account where I assume, as most content creators do. They're are demo pictures and what not to entice potential subs.

[Jo****]

It's fair game.

[fu****]

Regardless of any general moral or ethical principles, you seem uncomfortable with it.

[pe****]

You are good !!!! 😃

[De****]

Good explanation

[To****]

If it makes you uncomfortable, then don't do it. However, she is fine with sharing her content for anyone to see and makes *** from it. It's her job. If she doesn't have a problem with it, you shouldn't either. Just my thoughts. X

[Tr****]

Not unless you are taking notes for your own content.

[mi****]

I do not feel that it is morally wrong.
It is out there for the world to see. But the fact that you feel so guilty about it, I think you may feel that it is wrong. Even though it is a desire of yours to look
So that is my thoughts on it.But you have to make your own decision

[Th****]

I don't think it's wrong. But, if it makes YOU feel uncomfortable like you're doing something wrong. Then I suggest one last wank, and then stop it.
Or see if maybe she might be willing to include you...?

[Ki****]

It's not wrong at all

[Da****]

19 hours ago, GoofyGoober95 said:

Personally, I think the fact that she showed it to you herself puts you in the clear

A woman being intoxic*ted does NOT put you in the clear. I hope you know this.

[Da****]

18 hours ago, Quixote_69 said:

It sounds like your friend told you about her content when she couldn't give true consent. If she was under the influence when she told you and actively tries to hide it while sober should tell you what you need to know.

Yes, exactly! The number of people on here thinking it's all good because she told her friend while blackout drunk is frightening.

[Sa****]

This is going to depend on if your a moral absolutist or subjectivist. On one hand publically accessible content is in fact public, and you, as well as anyone else like her parents, friends, and strangers can view it. When you make something public you give consent to the public. On the other hand if you feel access is not public, but rsther granted on an individual basis then not everyone has the right to view such content. Everyone needs to ask permission.

If you are a moral absolutist you need to decide the authority on who dictates morals. This is an executable offense in some jurisdictions, imprisonable in others, and in others completely legal and even consider morally grey.

Her showing you the photos may not be considered consent due to ***. Again, morally it may be ok. There are consequences to our actions and she has indeed been put in that position by herself. Afterall we don't just let drunk drivers off the hook because they were drunk.

[cl****]

...it's posted publicly, you could have found it accidentally, although you didn't, no need to ask permission or feel wrong, and if you wanna admit to them or not that's up to you, but don't feel ashamed or like your doing something wrong, not everything in this world needs to be thought so deeply about, and if she would get mad she not a friend, if she could post it publicly so should have the back bone to take it.

[Th****]

In my opinion, this is a bit of a grey area. She puts the content online for anyone to see, so she does clearly want people to notice as that is how she makes a living. But if she doesn’t remember telling you about her account, it’s not as clear without more information. If it’s just memory issues, then I wouldn’t think much of it. But if she was under the influence of *** or alcohol when she showed you her page, that is someone who is not in a state to make good decisions and therefore shouldn’t be considered to be able to give consent for anything. But those who make NSFW content to make a living also have certain risks that are their reality.

[Ms****]

I'm gonna take the other side of this. If she's been trying to hide the account that promotes this from you (and other friends), and if the only reason you obtained the information was because she was ***, I would say she would likely not be ok with you viewing her content. Yes, it's technically "public" but it's only public if you have access to that private page, or are given her @.

There's a reason these kind of sites can only be reached by knowing someone's handle. As someone who does online sw, I know I would be uncomfortable if I found out certain people were viewing the content I post.

If you want to be sure, though. You could always just ask her. Something like, 'Hey, I think you're lovely and would like to support you. Would you be comfortable with me adding you on [insert site here]. If she says yes, then you're good. If se says no, then you have your answer

[Co****]

I'd say looking is fine, but otherwise respect their privacy and don't tell others, don't bring up a set, or specific thing to her...

If you want to come clean, or at least get permission so it's no longer weird, ask about the account while sober, mention that you got talking about it while drinking, and ask if she'd mind you looking. Then go from there depending on her response.

[so****]

Unless you view SW as a negative there is no reason not to look. If you feel it is not casual kosher than maybe you should look into that first. Then move forward wherever that put you.

[DarkArts1066]

Ask yourself these questions-

One. What harm is viewing her content actually doing - as long as you don’t mention to her that you are doing so ?

(Neither of you are being harmed by this situation - as it stands. IF you were to mention this to her, you would likely be crossing a line, since she has showed you this content, but wants to keep it secret from her friendship group.)

Two. At what point would YOU see your behaviour as crossing a line ?

(We all have ‘guilty pleasures’. That secret part of us that we would be embarrassed about if it became public knowledge… it could be something as binge watching a TV programme and eating a whole tub of ice cream - or a Dominant person needing to feel the sting of a cane now and then perhaps …?)

BUT - the point is, as long as no one is actually coming to harm through our actions, and as long as we are able to keep a lid on these desires, and keep them hidden then what is the actual harm in doing what you are doing ?

Bear in mind this though - if you were to “party” with your friend again, and blurt out that you knew about her lifestyle, how would that affect your friendship ?

Can you trust yourself enough for that not to happen ?

[Deleted Member]

To me it sounds like you want more than a friend and you are torturing yourself by looking. You said she is incredibly attractive and not at all interested in you.

Morally wrong, no. She puts it out there for the world to see. Based on her not remembering telling you, I think her inhibitions were low and probably a bit drunk. So her subconcious betrayed her by allowing herself to show you.

That could mean she really, deep down inside she IS interested in you OR she is desperatly trying to stop living that hidden life.

Either option can bring you emotional ***. I say stop watching it. Tell her how you really feel and let the chips fall where they may...

[Kr****]

She showed you for a reason and you clearly have feeling for her. Are you willing to risk your friendship for a possible relationship with her. If you choose to speak with her, be as honest as you can.

[Deleted Member]

Don't make it complicated. Talk to her. You know her secret. Finished.