How do masculine switches explore feminization?

[Deleted Member]

I’m a masculine man and a switch, but my curiosity around feminization isn’t really about submission. What turns me on is a woman taking control of the process guiding me, dressing me up, and playing with that polarity while I still hold my masculine energy.

My challenge is that I’m very masculine in appearance and demeanor, so I’m not sure how to bridge that gap or find women who are into feminizing men who still carry a dominant edge.

For those who’ve explored this dynamic how did you approach it? I feel like women who are into feminization only go for more feminine looking men

[Deleted Member]

"What turns me on is a woman taking control of the process guiding me, [and] dressing me up"

I'm submissive, though perhaps I can maybe relate in that I have no desire to ever present as non-masc outside of a safe space, or indeed without a Dom's involvement.

The desire to have someone who wants to shape me that way is the turn on for me too, but I've only experienced it with a Pro before, so I'm also curious if anyone has answers

[ev****]

A masculine man would honestly never say this shit signed a guy who isnt even hypermasculine himself

[MK****]

There are many ways to go through feminization without going full blown sissyfication. Ask her to give you a "princess day", give tou just tiny feminizing touches, skincare, ***ting your nails, light make-up such as powder base, hidrating your hair, etc. While keeping your outfit dominantly masculine.

[Th****]

I'm fairly new to the kink space and have a hard time finding women who are into feminization in general

[Deleted Member]

Hi there ! I see alot of men commenting so I thought id give my 2 cents as someone you likes submissive or switch men . I actually like the “dominant edge “ without the full feminization. It’s a reminder of the power that you have but willingly surrender to me . Dom fem women are rare, coming from one I still have not met any other woman that expresses the same interests as me

[Ablaze]

It takes the fun out of ****d feminization* when guys are already past curious and already asking/begging for it.

[Vi****]

As someone who is into feminizing and the like, I’m surprised to hear that it’s not a larger community of women doms who are into it. I know for me it brings me joy seeing someone who is hyper masculine becomes subservient in the way that they allow me to guide them through that. I think the biggest thing is being upfront in what your goal is or at least trying to find that goal so you can find the right person to help guide you through it.

[ev****]

A hypermasculine man would not do that. Youre kidding yourself to think that. They may appear hypermasculine...but they really arent. They are masquerading. I dont even know what hypermasculine looks like but i feel like i am regular masculine and it all sounds like being a bitch to me.

[Ro****]

When I dress I also take on a different personality. Like the clothing makes me someone different.

But you can be dominant and cross dress, you just develop a different dynamic. With one of my longer term dominant partnerships we sorta ended up with a 'girl pals' style dynamic rather than a domme/sub one but she was still in charge. You might find a brat style dynamic works for you both too. I think switches in submissive mode often become brats.

[da****]

As a switch who looks feminine but doesn’t dress really feminine you just gotta be open about it when you’re talking about that stuff don’t bring it up first time talking but definitely there are lots of women out there that find it really attractive having a man who looks manly but like to be dominated these women have a certain look or vibe i usually go for alt/emo/goth woman really anything but basic plain looking girls that look like clones of every basic white girl. Alt girls are best for this stuff because they are open minded or go for a bisexual woman they’re open to that stuff too

[ey****]

dump the idea of "masculinity" - this is something that is becoming an unnecessary distraction

Hell, possibly even dump the idea of "Dominant"

there are actually Dominant cross-drossers. This isn't like a new idea.  In this case obviously you want the other person to take some control - but - you in yourself can push this down.    Obviously of course there may be issue if you have, say, a beard you don't wish to get rid of - but again you wouldn't be the first feminised person to retain a beard.

[ey****]

8 hours ago, VivaciousxxVixen said:

As someone who is into feminizing and the like, I’m surprised to hear that it’s not a larger community of women doms who are into it.

I've found there are quite a few into it - but I'm aware of some of the challenges often faced.

While a lot of men wish to explore femisation as either an idea, fun, extension-of-themselves, whatever...  a lot are very "being a woman is humiliating, so make me a woman" which is very misogynistic.   A lot is where a lot of sissy stuff comes from (not that all sissies are inhertantly bad, or into ***) because it's not feminisation it's sissification which is quite different. 

[so****]

I actually enjoy this very much as a person. It's even in my bio lol. But I think it comes from a different place and based on a couple of these comments, I feel pretty validated. Stereotypically masculine looking men are absolutely held to some weird standard that they always have to be the manly man. I have a VERY dominant and physically intimidating hubby and he turns into a big ol puddle of goo when I do face masks or groom his nails for him, or whatever other silly little girly thing I'm doing for myself. Having a safe, encouraging place to explore a softer or more feminine side makes perfect sense to lots of us. I'd definitely say look for a switch or soft/mommy D-type. Lots of us love making boys pretty princesses 🥰

[MoHawKx]

I feel the absolute exact same way. And found women are not being truthful or forthcoming about this topic. Curious to see some comments about this

[Deleted Member]

Yesterday at 09:59 AM, eyemblacksheep said:

I've found there are quite a few into it - but I'm aware of some of the challenges often faced.

While a lot of men wish to explore femisation as either an idea, fun, extension-of-themselves, whatever...  a lot are very "being a woman is humiliating, so make me a woman" which is very misogynistic.   A lot is where a lot of sissy stuff comes from (not that all sissies are inhertantly bad, or into ***) because it's not feminisation it's sissification which is quite different. 

Agreed, the “your very gender is lesser and humiliating, but dress me up like that i want to cosplay” aspect is such a turn off

[Al****]

3 hours ago, aquariusBratt said:

Agreed, the “your very gender is lesser and humiliating, but dress me up like that i want to cosplay” aspect is such a turn off

I feels he’s seeing it as dress me like a woman because women are lesser and humiliating when that’s not it at all. Never heard of that in sissy stuff but maybe that does exists? But It’s I’m a masculine guy everywhere all the time, it’s humiliating to be turned into the complete opposite of what society thinks I should be. Frilly pink girly, submissive, dominated. Non of that means women are lesser or the gender of women is humiliating. Thats very different.