Relationships - guys experience

[ca****]

The amount of scammers is ridiculous. I must go through 30 chats just to find 1 real person and then it’s not even a guaranteed match up.

[Lu****]

Somes worlds are cenzors. I see this too. Some stupid situations. And normal worlds...
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In forum not jet.
Bring new people in, yes.
On badoo some:
2 ways:
1. You are open, and show what's you needs are. Like: 🐕 looking for/ not owned etc
Surprisingly, the most effective method.
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And 2: First meeting, and slow open.

[Ba****]

Honestly relationships in general seem to be non existent and even less so for bdsm ones. Now I do live in a spot where I dont entirely fit the norm (especially being 1000% sober from any alcohol and ***) and being a single parent (even though I have no custody and just have visitation every now and again). It would be a dream to find a sub that not only fits my regular relationship goals but also my bdsm ones, but the likely hood of that happening seems to be dwindling by the day

[be****]

Way to many scammers and bots. Talk to a lot just to find one real person and they are skittish because they are running through the same issues...

[Bl****]

1 hour ago, Aranhis said:

Why not? Who is to say that a male in one of these situations now is unable to offer valuable, constructive insight? You might be missing on the most perfect gem of an answer to top all other answers from a guy with a wealth of relevant experience just because he doesn't fit your criteria now. Women, men's partners, members of polycules and so on may have directly witnessed some of these struggles and/or have appropriate anecdotes the community might benefit from.

 

I'm not actually interested in the answer (or any thread which gatekeeps relevant, respectful responses), but I hope the point has given food for thought.

Lol where's the mods now?

[FE****]

8 minutes ago, BlackGrassland said:

Lol where's the mods now?

We are still here monitoring as always.

[Bl****]

5 minutes ago, FETMod-RG said:

We are still here monitoring as always.

Gosh is there a mod link in the app directly?

I see some off topic comments that need erasure.

[FE****]

7 minutes ago, BlackGrassland said:

Gosh is there a mod link in the app directly?

I see some off topic comments that need erasure.

yes, there's a 'report' link on every comment.

[Vl****]

not great

[Br****]

Brand new here so not fully sure never delved in to this stuff and it’s interesting to learn and explore but the app itself is kind of hectic and hard to explore at times also fact that I know basically little about this world prevents me from going too deep

[Ki****]

Lack of replies and "matches" with accounts that haven't been signed into in months.

[To****]

Horrible. No luck at all

[Wa****]

The women on here have been very rude to me.

[Mi****]

No luck for me

[Wa****]

I want to meet in person not just text.

[Mr****]

Been looking for someone to hangout with since February... between here and AFF... absolutely nothing has come of any vague conversations and fake accounts 🙄 😒 🤦🏻‍♂️

[gu****]

Not good, very hard to find

[Jo****]

Most of the time they're all talk never resolve

[Co****]

It’s not easy, but it’s possible. I met my wife on a BDSM site. The relationship only lasted 15 years, but that was a good run. After sorting through the bots and scammers, I have met a couple good people on this site as well. So far none of those relationships have lasted more than a few months, but a real connection is possible.

[Il****]

Go find a needle in a haystack... Then... Take that needle and throw it into a pile of needles... Now to find the strand of hay that isn't in the needle stack... Cause of dating isn't ridiculous enough by itself... Trying to find someone who is open minded sexually but also respectful to whatever degree the person requires (lmao)... Finding a woman I like... Fair enough . Finding a woman I might love.. crazy odds for anyone.. finding a woman I can like, love, spank as she bites into my neck while we rolling across the floor like pythons in heat fighting for dominance... And then turn around and pay the bills and do a nice Sunday gone cooked dinner with bread, wine the whole thing..with ..? Lol idk . What is it like....?

[nz****]

Not great - it’s pretty much tumbleweeds but that probably a combination of being on free account and a low population location (NZ) and older than average (50s) so may be my own problem

[gr****]

Well, theres less bots than most of the dating apps which is nice

[Pi****]

I haven't had a single hit. Even when I was paying. I dunno what I'm doing wrong tbh. It's probably the skewed ratio of men to women. The second a mildly attractive woman makes an account she's innundated with all manner of men and can freely take her pick.

[JackJonesHull]

At my advanced age I find interest in me is minimal at best. That's before any communication occurs of course. Invariably I'll destroy any minimal interest with my sense of humour in quick time.

[hi****]

8 hours ago, FETMod-RG said:

We are still here monitoring as always.

Mods control the vertical, they control the horizontal