Relationships - guys experience

[ha****]

Easy as a respectful Dom looking for romance. Impossible as a respectful sub looking for romance.

[al****]

Just like most apps it’s hard to find someone to enjoy or to experience what you are looking for women have many many options on this and it’s hard to stand out even if you give the most outta your first message she most likely have 10 other guys that say the same thing so it’s hard get thru the first stage

[pa****]

No luck. Way too many scam artists

[Bl****]

9 hours ago, FETMod-RG said:

yes, there's a 'report' link on every comment.

Meaning a sign up to become one?

[FE****]

25 minutes ago, BlackGrassland said:

Meaning a sign up to become one?

No, meaning each individual comment has a 'report' option.  If you see a post that you feel breaks the code of conduct etc, then you can 'report' it, these then arrive in a queue for mods to review and action where necessary.

[Bl****]

4 minutes ago, FETMod-RG said:

No, meaning each individual comment has a 'report' option.  If you see a post that you feel breaks the code of conduct etc, then you can 'report' it, these then arrive in a queue for mods to review and action where necessary.

Not sure why you think I needed you to explain what you meant. To be clear, are you saying there is no way to aign up to be a mod?

[ha****]

6 minutes ago, FETMod-RG said:

No, meaning each individual comment has a 'report' option.  If you see a post that you feel breaks the code of conduct etc, then you can 'report' it, these then arrive in a queue for mods to review and action where necessary.

I report everyone who tries to scam me or direct me away from this site to "communicate better."

[FE****]

28 minutes ago, BlackGrassland said:

Not sure why you think I needed you to explain what you meant. To be clear, are you saying there is no way to aign up to be a mod?

Maybe because your request wasn't clear?

However, now that you are, here's a link that you can use.  Good Luck.

[FE****]

https://support.fetish.com/hc/en-us/articles/29011847979666-Becoming-a-FETMod

[Pu****]

It's hard to find anyone in my age range not looking for women or a ons. And when I do they're so far away I'd have to stay at a hotel just to meet them and that's out of budget. Plus everyone who says they want to meet doesn't seem to like my one rule that first dates have to be in public with no kissing or inappropriate touching.

[Bi****]

I don't know what this is all about. I Thought it was about horny people

[FETMod-HG]

3 hours ago, hiramcouple said:

Mods control the vertical, they control the horizontal

Sounds a little like yoga!

 

Many commenting on the fake profiles and scammers.  All online communities, dating apps etc are prone to these things.  If it were possible to eliminate them completely then they would all have done it.  The only way to manage them is to report each and every scammer and fake profile you see.  Once verified to be seeking *** or a fake, they are kicked out straight away.  No second chances on those.

Report using the report function as the support team have access to profiles,  FetMods are only in either the chatroom or Forum monitoring content - so please don't report fakes and scammers to us as we can't access that part of the system.

[ja****]

It's absolutely abysmal. Dating websites are already bad for men but this site as well as the other fet site are absolutely a kick in the teeth because the women here love to talk on and on and on about sex they like to talk about how sexual they are blah blah blah but then if you as a man go hi there I read your profile I'd love to share those experiences with you that the women act aghast like just because I said I like to be tied up and use like a stuck pig doesn't mean you get to talk about sex with me you anim@l

[ha****]

I had one long distance relationship starting to form own here. It had gone long enough I was actually thinking of crossing the country to meet her, and then she said this: "I have to end this. I can't be investing my time in a màn who's not moving forward in life."
I'm 60. Other than retirement where exactly do you expect me to moving toward?

[ha****]

But every other one has asked for ***

[ha****]

M on e y

[FETMod-HG]

 

3 minutes ago, happygoodboy said:

But every other one has asked for ***

make sure you report every one of them!

[El****]

The worst dating app experience I've had. Vanilla apps I am very picky but get matches, have decent conversations, go on a dates and have a nice time meeting someone new even if it is not for me. Here I greatly lowered my aestetic and social criteria and in half a year didn't exchange more than two sentances with someone.

[th****]

I think it’s tougher for guys here than on mainstream apps. Here, women are a lot more open about their desires and fantasies, which can make it seem like there’s a connection, when really it’s not mutual or personal whatsoever.

And here, when a woman’s profile talks almost entirely about sexual stuff, that’s all a guy has to go on when trying to write a message that feels relevant or interesting. But as soon as he mentions something sexual, it’s read as “all he wants is sex,” and gets ignored. On the flip side, if he plays it safe and says “hey,” “hello,” or “how’s it going,” she won’t respond because it’s too basic. So guys end up stuck between a rock and a hard place.

This place definitely encourages openness and sexual expression, but that doesn’t necessarily translate into real interest or intent. For most women on here, at least in my experience, it’s more about expression, attention, or that dopamine hit from being desired, rather than finding something that actually materializes offline.

[bb****]

Been mostly people trying to get m*ney to be honest. Doubt I’ll renew the subscription when it runs out. After about a month I hardly even check anymore

[da****]

I come on here once a week maybe? lol I have 0 luck on here and pretty much all other sites, although other sites I get likes but I never get a response even if it’s a harmless compliment

[Hu****]

I've only been able to find physical relationships on these apps which is perfect if that's what you're looking for but think finding a kink partner for a serious relationship is much harder to find on these apps

[Tr****]

Blackgrasslands 🤣👍 Lol where's the mods now? I'm just sitting back reading the comments this time hahaha

[Tr****]

And 100% agree with just about 100% of the comments... I see I'm not alone here...

[Bi****]

Haven't found crap on here, makes u pay?, tf is this world coming too...