Relationships - guys experience

[Dr****]

19 hours ago, DownForFun975 said:

I mean it’s difficult I know from 2 or 3 people I’ve talked to that most lady’s have probably a half dozen DMs and and the inbox is kinda dry on my half I thought this was a place more to explore and then possibly date. I’m ok with a FWB and I’m not shit off to more if it happens but a lot of people sure don’t seem to care for, or are willing to put in any leg work. Maybe there busy I sure know I am and I don’t have all the time in the world but back and forth messaging seems to be dead as hell. I don’t think low of my self but this app sure has tested my self image I wish things were better but the only suggestion I have is auto deleting accounts after no activity for like 2 months

Id like to say auto delete would be good but for me with how dry it is here I honestly don't visit enough to keep an account if they deleted every 2 months. With life and everything I might be on for a few weeks to months a lil bit daily then fall back and take a break for long periods because wasting time that I need isn't cutting it

[Bl****]

On 11/2/2025 at 4:32 PM, FETMod-HG said:

Please, judge the ***! They are not permitted on Fet so please report them so we can remove them.  All Scam accounts and finds, please!

Lol, when I mentioned this on the women's post. I was given a vi@lation, so that would lend to the conspiracy, and it's highly common for apps to conflate numbers and have bot accounts, so......

[Bl****]

On 11/3/2025 at 10:07 AM, eyemblacksheep said:

you are using a photo which is not you.  Are you owned by fet?

Why are you on this post? Your only goal seems to be invalidate to others' experiences, then you're harangueing someone about their pics and defending finndom when the practice is not allowed here and despite any legitimacy as a kink. Its potential for ab*se is why it's looked down upon and not allowed here. Please go find the topic for you.

[Lo****]

2 hours ago, Dru1dF0rc3 said:

Id like to say auto delete would be good but for me with how dry it is here I honestly don't visit enough to keep an account if they deleted every 2 months. With life and everything I might be on for a few weeks to months a lil bit daily then fall back and take a break for long periods because wasting time that I need isn't cutting it

Perhaps more of a hibernation then. Remove it from public but jeep the account active.

[FE****]

7 hours ago, BlackGrassland said:

Lol, when I mentioned this on the women's post. I was given a vi@lation, so that would lend to the conspiracy, and it's highly common for apps to conflate numbers and have bot accounts, so......

You were given a warning because your post was off-topic, if I recall correctly.  Not for what you mentioned.

[Ar****]

11 hours ago, BlackGrassland said:

Why are you on this post? Your only goal seems to be invalidate to others' experiences, then you're harangueing someone about their pics and defending finndom when the practice is not allowed here and despite any legitimacy as a kink. Its potential for ab*se is why it's looked down upon and not allowed here. Please go find the topic for you.

Ah jeez, if only you knew 😂🤦‍♂️

 

The thing is, ever since forums began in ancient Roman cities right up to their present form today, they've been a place for the exchange of ideas. And ideas, conversations, topics - they evolve, grow and change. 

 

There is a huge difference between an off-topic comment and one which piggy-backs or follows a clear logical path started earlier in a forum thread (such as the ones you keep challenging).

 

The discussion of *** absolutely is permitted on this site, and Eyem is right to defend it as a legitimate kink. The conversation simply needs - understandably - to be handled with exceptional care and monitoring, which the FETMods have in hand.

[ey****]

17 hours ago, BlackGrassland said:

Why are you on this post?

that's a cheek coming from you!

the guy who hijacked a thread about female submissives - stay in your lane

17 hours ago, BlackGrassland said:

Your only goal seems to be invalidate to others' experiences

where did I do this?

17 hours ago, BlackGrassland said:

then you're harangueing someone about their pics

pointing out hypocrisy. like you are being here

17 hours ago, BlackGrassland said:

defending finndom when the practice is not allowed here and despite any legitimacy as a kink.

yes, it's not allowed here. that's right.  but it is a legitimate kink and thus should deserve the same protections from "kink shaming" as any other legitimate kink.  

17 hours ago, BlackGrassland said:

Its potential for ab*se is why it's looked down upon and not allowed here.

actually, that's not true.   the reason it's not permitted is cos the app stores do not like it and so there needs to be tighter controls over content to get the site on the stores.  For the same kinda reason a word you used is censored and why there are other topics not permitted for discussion (many of which should also be protected from kink shaming, despite not being permitted for compliance reasons)

[Bl****]

Wednesday at 08:26 AM, FETMod-RG said:

You were given a warning because your post was off-topic, if I recall correctly.  Not for what you mentioned.

Right and what is the process for deciding what is off topic?

[Bl****]

Wednesday at 05:53 PM, eyemblacksheep said:

actually, that's not true.   the reason it's not permitted is cos the app stores do not like it and so there needs to be tighter controls over content to get the site on the stores.  For the same kinda reason a word you used is censored and why there are other topics not permitted for discussion (many of which should also be protected from kink shaming, despite not being permitted for compliance reasons)

Nope

[FE****]

2 hours ago, BlackGrassland said:

Right and what is the process for deciding what is off topic?

The mods make that decision.  Not all decisions are going to be liked nor accepted, however the rules say you should treat us like referees, accept the decision and get on with the game

[FE****]

2 hours ago, BlackGrassland said:

Nope

Hate to break it to you, but that is the reason.

[Tr****]

I think this conversation started out about black and white televisions...
They quickly moved from that to color televisions..
And then somebody brought up an Atari... And then somebody said the Nintendo DS was much better... And then the argument moved on to PS5 and quickly move from that to AI... And then back to in the pocket pussy was the greatest thing ever lol and somebody said they still like their hand haha...
But I can guarantee you pussy is always going to be the best thing !
I know that's not on conversation lol
But, who's splitting Hair 😂😂😂😂

[FETMod-HG]

Crikey I've been off for a week and come back to find its all a bit Pete Tong!

allowed that last one because it amused me - great penmanship! hope it draws a line under it all.

Could we possibly stray away from the arguing and ranting now 

[FETMOD-BD]

I think this thread has run it's course - Locked