I need advice

[Co****]

I am a very horny gal but my boyfriend is the exact opposite.
How do I get him to want to have sex with me more???😭

[fr****]

Honestly. Just put it on em. Only way. Tell em u wanna fuck then do it.

[ta****]

You dont you find a real man instead

[Sh****]

Honestly idk, it’s different for everyone. Maybe he wants you to initiate more? Or maybe he’s stressed out with something else that’s getting in the way. Maybe he’s stressed doesn’t want you to push it as much?

[Deleted Member]

That’s tough, I’m in the same situation. I’ve offered to explore her fantasies to arouse her, ask what she like, turns her on and work out a lot to make my body appealing lol. Have you tried asking what his deepest fantasies are or what arouses him? Some guys love their women to be slutty for them, but I’m sure you’ve already give tried route. I’d definitely explore his fantasies because I’d aim to what turns him on most. Good luck, I know the struggle

[RK****]

Have him get his test levels checked. It's the main factor in most men for their sex drive.

[kinkymasterandrew]

Your best bet is to ask him what the issue is. It may be completely unrelated to you, like work stress, health issues, or exhaustion.

[do****]

Sack him...it'll only get worse Candi..x

[bi****]

I’m not sure what advice I can give. I honestly don’t how he can keep his hands off of you. Maybe try to ask what could spice things up for him.

[sc****]

Better communication is definitely the key. Just ask in a calm chilled setting. Not during sex or when you are horny.

[Ta****]

I went through this with my ex and there's alot of factors that play into it. Stress, relationship issue (arguments etc), tiredness, mental health thenlist goes on. Your best bet is to sit down and talk to him about it. See what he wants and what you can do to get him going abit more often

[Te****]

Get a real man

[ft****]

Invite a girlfriend over

[kn****]

I just got out of a relationship with the exact situation. I’m very sexual and he wasn’t. However, honestly I think it was me. He just wasn’t interested in me. He was with others. He had things he liked. It just wasn’t me. I hate to say it it was disappointing. I wish I had known before. Talk to him and just be honest. Don’t bullshit around because it just ain’t worth wasting your time and energy

[L4****]

Honest conversation is gonna be necessary. It’s part of any thriving dynamic

[Ho****]

I had this issue with my ex GF she couldnt hang it was so depressing i was horny 24/7 and she couldnt hang at all i wanted to fuck few times a day

[Wi****]

Ya usually start with foreplay

[Re****]

Oh girl. Take a walk to a park, lay back and watch the universe grow and move your soul

[CuriousChris93]

Get him Testosterone Boosters, if a man doesn't crave to have sex with you in this day and age then the libido must be low, If he doesn't wake up with Morning Wood every morning then it's a sign of Low Testosterone, if he lacks energy and drive also, they're all the symptoms of a man with Low T. Take him to the doctors to get his T-Levels checked out.

[Mr****]

Cheat on him

[Ro****]

Some good advice here and some shitty ones too.

As many mention it could be stress, hormone levels, or similar things. I'd say you should also consider you both are different persons, with different desires and levels of sexual drive. I have a high libido, my partner doesn't, it is how it is for us.

Not every man is a mindless sex machine that wants to fuck 24/7 and that is ok. That doesn't mean he is not a 'real man' as some suggest here. That doesn't mean he doesn't love you, or he is not interested in you. It might be that he is just like that and end of the story.

[wh****]

There might be something else in the relationship that's a problem that you might not know about

[jo****]

Eat chocolate with him

[Bl****]

You should talk to him about it first. Just be up front about your needs. If he gives you an answer that doesn’t jive then it’s on him and not because of something you did.

[an****]

I definitely agree with Roooos. Try wearing certain things around the house or in the room to see how he reacts to it. Talk to him about it. See from his pov what it is. It may be something minor that turns his knob up a bit.