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for the first time i actually got to Experience what it's like to be the reciever of body worship and i got some questions.when im the one worshipping i will go anywhere on her body and recive anything from her body but when im being worshipped,he feels awesome but like im....undeserving? maybe abit overwhelmed but i still love the sensation. does anyone get what i mean? and is there a way to feel more comfortable through this?
I see that you predominantly identify as a submissive. Perhaps you're still finding yourself in the left side of the slash? I suggest that you do the Superman pose before engaging in the dominant role. Do anything else that gets you in that mindset. Tell yourself that you are strong and fierce. Basically, psyche yourself up.

If you still feel undeserving after the next time you receive body worship then it's possible that's not your thing as a dominant. And know what? That's perfectly fine! Kink offers a full smorgasbord of opportunities and you will find what truly fulfills you!
I personally have an issue with body worshiping someone else as it is a very dominant role and I am very submissive, however, in every one of my LTR's once I fully give myself to my dom there is always 1 session and only 1 in which I switch roles become completely dominant and body worship my partner. For me it feels like I'm not myself if I try to before that point in the relationship. It feels as though I'm a imposter in my own skin and so I make sure all my partner's know prior that it will happen in time only once if I am ready to truly give everything to them. Therefore, I'm going one step further then ChameleonLady (though I agree with everything said in that post) by saying it's okay to admit if it's not you and if you need time or space to fill a role you want to fill, either way search how you truly feel, talk it out with your partner and even individuals who will understand and then decide what you are okay with and not.

my personal limits

depends on the other person - nothing, in theory is off limits on where I'd worship, or be worshipped, but that would also have to reflect the other persons comfort and boundaries.  

i do want to add im actually a switch and am used to being dom alot but its hard for me to find someone who will let me be sub so i made a sub leaning account. im used to bondage and dirty talk and spanking. this girl was the first who wanted to actually worship my body
Leave my feet and butt alone. I know, my kink points just dropped precipitously, I don’t care. I hate feet and don’t want anyone playing in my back yard. Other than that cover yourself in massage oil and let’s play slip and slide with a Thai massage.
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