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I have been fortunate enough to be blessed with this issue. Whenever I get excited out in public or in general I end up with a 7-inch throbber with no way to deal with it. I often tuck it into my waistband but depending on the pants I'm wearing it could peak out. Does the kinky community have any advice or methods to conceal my excitement
Get easy with it. It’s just natural and there shouldn’t be any need to conceal it.
From one big man to another, the easiest way to resolve the problem is by flexing another muscle for a while. Do this for about a minute or two, and mind muscle connection is just enough to make the election go away. Just make sure you're hydrated if you plan on flexing your calves, otherwise you might cramp up and draw more attention 😂
Crazywicked
But it’s embarrassing if your with a girl and they see it. What exactly goes through a girls mind when that happens?
17 minutes ago, Crazywicked said:
But it’s embarrassing if your with a girl and they see it. What exactly goes through a girls mind when that happens?

If you’re ever afraid about that, remember „the erection if the most honest of all compliments“

Ya but it may be a compliment but not knowing were you stand makes it awkward. When your first testing the waters of something casual to maybe more and the wind blows then your hard for a hour it’s embarrassing. I quickly adjust when there not looking though. Then there’s the shit I put my arm around someone watching a movie then I’m involuntarily hard for a hour kinda problem.
KnightOfCydonia
3 hours ago, Tiggerdaddt40 said:
Ya but it may be a compliment but not knowing were you stand makes it awkward. When your first testing the waters of something casual to maybe more and the wind blows then your hard for a hour it’s embarrassing. I quickly adjust when there not looking though. Then there’s the shit I put my arm around someone watching a movie then I’m involuntarily hard for a hour kinda problem.

I mean even if you’re just testing the waters, I don’t see it as a problem. Just make a joke of it if it’s noticed and move on. Part of the shared awkwardness is in your own reaction to it; if you own it and make light of it then that actually shows confidence and self-assuredness. Which is attractive. And it not-so-subtly signals your interest. Which might move things forward, and if it doesn’t, it is what it is. Erections are normal, women know that and will have experienced the female equivalent too at various points because it’s natural to be aroused by close contact with someone you’re attracted to. Overthinking is a curse but that’s really all it is. Overthinking. The real factor is your reaction to it. Easier said than done, I know, as a serial over thinker. But over time I’ve been able to rationalise awkward or embarrassing moments as just a part of human interaction and in scenarios like this they’re actually something of an opportunity for flirtatiousness. Ultimately, if you’re not embarrassed by something and you signal that, it stops being embarrassing in the eyes of the other person too.

if you're only 7" don't worry they can't see it. 

Conceal the erection inside whatever caused it until it is small again.
KnightOfCydonia
Just now, majikhappenz25 said:
Conceal the erection inside whatever caused it until it is small again.

No problems, only solutions!

I try to conceal it nonchalantly, using the Ole hand in jacket pocket or trouser pocket trick, but as an exhibitionist the thought of someone seeing it ends out turning me on even more. Just stay cool
Usually I pull
Into my waistband if I’m somewhere I can’t have it seen
Back when I had a penis,I used to tuck it between my waist band of my pants. It will go away within a few minutes most likely
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